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writes: I really need to know. I don't know why but a lot of girls these days are really superficial and shallow so I want to know what girls really want in a guy, and what qualities they look for.Be honest!! And is there such thing as body language? Does that affect their opinion? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 This depends on what kind of girl you are trying to attract. True, most girls (especially in your age bracket) are shallow, but not all are. Yes, there is a such thing as body language. When you see someone fidget a lot when you speak to them, this might tell you "wow, I must be making them nervous", or "this person is kind of strange". If you see someone light up when you walk in the room, and approach you right away, you might get the impression that they are intrested in engaging in a conversation with you in a positive way. There are so many different directions in body language it's rediculous, and sometimes, confusing. I can't say exactly what it is that most girls want in a guy, but one thing I think all females can agree on is confidence. I don't mean major ego, I mean a quiet confidence that dosnt overshadow who you are as a person. It's knowing that who you are is exactly who you want to be and you are just fine with that. For me, and many other cool girls out there, this is a major turn on. Don't compromise yourself for anyone, it will only result in a dead end relationship that leaves you confused about who you are. Good luck, and just a little side note, try to stay away from the shallow girls. They are just looking for someone that makes them look good, and they will do all they can to change you to fit that profile:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Well i've been throught the superficial stage and come out of it in a guy i want someone who will respect me so like no pervy comments unless i know fully that it is a joke, also someone that can take a joke and also make me laugh- cheer me up when i'm down. Some who cares about how you feel and someone you can trust and talk to about anything no matter how embarressing. x
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