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writes:I need loads of help and comfort =[! I have a girlfriend and I've fought really hard to get her. We have not had sex or anything but we have came very close. I really do have a spot for her in my heart and i do love her but i dont feel she loves me.We have been fighting lately and she has been acting very wierd, I normally see her every night but all of the sudden I haven't seen her in a week and a half. It has been snowy lately but she is giving me excuses that just dont seem right, like if she wanted to leave at 10pm her parents wouldnt give a damn and now she is telling me her mom is begging her not to leave because of the snow??? And just things aren't right.She has got me totally out of whack!! How do I get answers and how do I make things right? I tell her i miss her and she replies with a "do you really." She said some very hurtful words the other day but we worked it out and i honestly didn't want a thing to do with her ever ever again, her exact words is "When we fight i think that i can just forget you and go on with my life but i can't because you're such a good person. I'm sitting here heartbroken cause I don't know what the deal is. She even text my mom and told her she loves me!!!I want to know what to do, please help me guys, please, Private message me too, with answers, that would be great! =[=[=[
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reader, activeplay +, writes (20 January 2009):
activeplay is verified as being by the original poster of the question Let me mind you that she is the one that texts me talking about sex, sayin she wishes she was with me so we could, its almost as if she is teasing me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): ok well maybe she didnt want to have sex yet and its blowing her mind that she almost did. you need to get your gf and sit her down and have a talk with her and find out whats really going on tell her your concerns and that you dont have to rush you can slow down if she wants to you didnt mean to hurt her and all you want to do is make sure shes ok. let her know you love her and you want to be with her and that you care for her and you just really want to know whats going on. be patient be polite dont worry. talk to her.
i hope everything works out.
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