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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I don't know what is wrong with me so I really want physical/sexual contact with girls but I have no drive what so ever to date one. I don't know, I could ask out at least 30 off the top of my head that would go out with me. I just don't feel like going out with them on a date or anything. This is hard to explain but I just don't want to take out anyone on a date or anything. I always wish for some sexual stuff in my life but don't ever want to say... hey wanna come over or go to the movies... I might be scared but if that's is the case I don't know what I'm scared of... I really need someone elses opinion on this. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (20 January 2009):
Sex is more than just a physical act, it involves emotion, feelings, trust, and is something so wonderful you need to put MUCH effort, time, and work into dating and courtship of a girl you desire, and then when you finally do it, it's not "so you can have sex", it's because you love (love is measured by sacrifice) that person SO MUCH that you have no other way to express your deepest love but sex.
And if you have to get it out, masturbation is there for a reason.
lovelynightmare
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reader, mrflip +, writes (20 January 2009):
You want to have sex but don't want to date? Congratulations! You're officially a teenage male. I wouldn't worry, you're perfectly normal. Just remember to use protection.
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