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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey guys please help as I am going out if head! I think I'm in love with a straight man! He doesn't know I like men, I don't think I did until I met him, I'm 24 and have never been in love... and think this is what it feels like because he's all I think about!He works in the same place as me and is a friend of my friend! The thing is I don't know what he thinks of me! First of all he's made gay jokes in front of me a few times which makes me think he doesn't like them! He's also been with a woman for years who he's broken up with recently but the thing is I get the feeling there is something there, there has been many times where we have looked right into each others eyes for a few seconds too much! He's told me he thinks I'm very good looking, is this normal for a straight man?I always catch him at work looking at me as well! He seems to talk about me quite a bit to my friend as well! Recently I have tried to ignore him completely at work because I want to get over him but I know he looks at me to talk to me all the time so how do I know if he really likes me? I'm going mad and even want to leave work because of him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): well it sounds like u have a dilema, ubt the best thing to do is to just ask him. . dont leave work because of it. the worst thing he can say is no. . if you feel like there is something there dont just leave it, do something about it , you never know it could end up being something .
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