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30-35,
*rince01
writes:A girl saw a picture of me and my cousin, a girl and said is it her rival. What did she mean by that? Is it she is in love with me but timid to express it or a joke. Please help because she has made several approaches towards me, like I'll be sitting in class talking to my friends she will come and collect my books willingly and copy my uncopied notes in class and once my friend has seen that approaches and termed it a relationship. One day we were discussing about relationships in groups and one of my friends called her my girlfriend and she was somehow sort of offended. The next day my friend told me she asked him why he called her my girlfriend. Why this question? Was she hiding some soft feelings for me but don't want anyone to know about why her curiousity of asking my friend that sort of question is she offended or not want anyone to know her feelings?
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reader, HonestyAunt  +, writes (21 January 2009):
She likes you. I'd imagine she acted offended when your friend called her your girlfriend because she was worried about what you were thinking, and didn't want to look like she'd been rejected if you didn't feel the same way. Plus she won't want people just assuming she's yours - every girl likes to be asked out properly.
Just be careful that she doesn't get hooked on having your attention all the time - from the sound of things she's genuinely into you, but just watch that you don't get strung along. However I think she does really like you, and in her own way she has made the first move. Does she do all these things for anyone else? Unfortunately there's only one way of dealing with this - ask her out! If she says no, simply say you understand, keep your head high and carry on. And if she says yes... Good luck!!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 I think you should talk to her. It sounds like she might like you, but since you haven't made a move, she isn't sure how you feel about her. She's dropping hints, probably hoping you'll ask her out, and when your friend calls her your girlfriend, she probably thinks you've said something to this friend about a possible relationship, which is why she asked him why he called you his girlfriend.
Just talk to her... there are too many probably's in there.
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