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writes:I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is because we have such a great friendship and there has always been someone else. we are both taken by other people. but him and his girlfriend are in the process of breaking up. while my boyfriend and i are in the process of going on to our one year anniversary. i do love my boyfriend, and with him i know there is a future, but with my bestfriend there is no base or guarentee like there is with my current boyfriend. but to be honest i believe i love my bestfriend more than i love my boyfriend.bottom line is .. should i stay with my boyfriend b/c i do love him, but lose out on something that is a stronger love. or be with my bestfriend and not only sacrifice our friendship but stability and security that i feel with my current boyfriend?? i need some serious help.. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): Life is full of risks and chances! But its up to you which ones you choose to take. There all opportunities, yes mistakes are made but you might regret it if you dont just go for it.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 um maybe u should think about this.who makes u laugh and smile 24/7.i usually think that when u have a bff from the opposite sex it actually means u guys are soulmates cuz u guys know EVERYTHIING there is to know about each other and it makes the relationship last even more..but it all depends on who do u care about the most...if they were both about to fall 1000 ft from a building who would u stop or save first?
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