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writes:I know people say that a friendship between a married man and a single girl is wrong and that one of them always want something else. Well, I don't think is the case. I made a friend like a anyone would do 2 years ago in a business. He ended up being military and was rather friendly. He said he was married and all, I really didn't even thought about anything since I never looked at him as a possible "something".The thing is we become being more like pen-pals, since he Split to go to his family but we kept in touch, we do actually in a normal weekly basis. He always talks about family and all so cool. The thing is he has a military account in which we keep in touch.I have a Face-book and Myspace accounts and found his profile, so I added him but he didn't responded. What I don't get is he talks sweet saying he enjoys our friendship and emails and that it's so great to hear from me, but when it comes to added me in HIS circle of friends he doesn't. I haven't asked him b/c I WANT HIS FRIENDSHIP, so If I am his friend for real he should at least show me his family instead of avoiding subject when I ask about them, he just mention general stuff. I do feel he loves them and loves his wife and he says she's deployed right now (She's GI too) so he's having a hard time. I just told him That I believe him as a good man and do nothing stupid, that I wish them the best.Why if he considers me a friend he won't open up to his Circle of friends also? Something just don't makes sense!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): maybe he's catching feeling for you... that's why he is trying to avoid you. so just let him be...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): he may see you as something else but your blinded by the fact that you dont see him as that he doesnt want to join you in that group becasue someone might get a suspicion that hes doing something with you and it might start alot drama. back a way for a bit and let him come to you. he doesnt want you to meet his family for the very same reason. thats why married men dont put themselves and should put themselves in that kind of situation.
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