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writes:Hi, have a male friend, who is also a family friend, we have always been really close and can usually talk about anything. Of late I have been feeling very emotional and confused about a lot of things. I have tried to talk to people about it but find this difficult. However I then spoke to a much older lady I know and she told me the only way to resolve things sometimes in life is to be honest with yourself and if possible others. This has caused a problem. I decided to tell everyone how much I appreciated them, loved and cared for them. One of these people was my male friend I did this by txt. Basically I told him that I was tired of saying sorry for things I was not reponsible for not only to him but to others, that I really did love him and I understood that he might not feel the same (although he has told me differently in the past a long time ago) I told him I believed that we were friends for a reason and that I would always love him and not let him down. I told him that I felt better for telling him this.Now he has not visited, although he should have, not for me but for an important engagement. When I tried to phone him which I would not normally do if he did not turn up he did'nt answer. When I tried later he turned off his phone. I've sent him another txt telling him why I had tried to phone. But I feel really bad about this and a bit embarrased. We get on like a house on fire and have told each other things that have been very personal to us both. Should I just leave it like this and not try to contact him, and what do I do if he does turn up do I try to act as normal. I feel like running away which is totally stupid, but I've got a gut feeling that this is bad, can anyone please help. Reply to this Question
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