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I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

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Question - (15 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in Year 9 and recently I've started to fall for a sixthformer in Year 12. I'd say we're reasonably good friends and we get on well, but I don't know what to do. He's generally a nice person but he's being really nice to me, I don't know if that's normal or not. But that's what has made me start liking him. If we did go out, which I highly doubt, then people might start judging me or him, calling us names and such. I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

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A female reader, Finicky One United States +, writes (15 January 2009):

Finicky One agony auntWell I hope this helps.

Talk to him in private somewhere and ask him questions. You may ask him about his recent girlfriends or girls he had liked. Joke around with him when asking these questions. He won't know that you're serious if you joke. Then ask him the big personal question.

"I just want to know how you feel when you are with me. Am I different from other girls that you hang around with? I just want to know how i'm different, if I am. To get a clear understanding."

Hope that helps. ; )

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