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*ilveknifex
writes:She said she wants space, but is still talking to me?So basically she said she needs space to figure her self out, because she still hasn't completely grieved over her ex of 3 years, so i think shes goign to use this space time to do that, while this is active she doesnt want to talk to me about us as a relationship or her and her ex, but last night ven with this space thing, she did start conversation with me, and it did lead to her ex still, so I know she's not trying to get over me, because she's still trying to talk to me, she just doesn't want the pressure of a relationship right now, I'm sure you women know how hard a break up is to get over especially after 3 years, the guys a douche, doesn't deserve or appreciate her and even lied to her last night, I doubt they're getting back together, but does it mean good when she still wants to talk to me even though we're on a break and she wants space?
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reader, Lib1 +, writes (16 January 2009):
 Listen I'm still getting over my ex of 2 years and its been 7 months since the break up. Guys have been trying to date me and the one's that last the longerst are the one's that give me my space. Eventually when they start getting closer with me they start demanding my time, emotions, and energy that I am still using to get over my ex. She well probably gravitate to you more the less you demad on her. She doesn't have much to give right now. But the less you try to take the more energy she'll have to move on from him and focus on you. Leave her alone and take her attention (when she gives it) graciously. She'll appreciate it and positive attachments to you will be made. Relax, you have the upper hand right now but don't waste it by pushing her faster or sooner than she would like to go. Let her take the lead. She'll let you know when is the best time.
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