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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional feelings or at least one who admitted to it. We started out just texting each other, which turned into everyday all day. Then we started hanging out on Friday nights just drinking and talking all night. Then he started coming every night for about an hour each nite after work. He started calling me pretty lady (which I absolutely love!!) and telling me how he couldn't stop thinking of me when he wasn't with me and how much he liked the feeling, he also told me how happy I made him.We also both VERY attracted to each other, there is no way of hiding it... the problem is that people don't agree with us being together cuz of the ex girlfriend. All of a sudden he pushed me away. He will not come near me cuz he says he is afraid he will hurt me but still talks to me every day, every morning messaging me my "good morning pretty lady". He is also very protective of me and tells me not to ever be afraid cuz he will always protect me and be there for me (not sure how if he' s afraid to see me)I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling. PLZ help
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reader, sheribaby38  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 he is definetly sending you mixed messages. you need to talk to him by phone or in person and ask him what the heck is going on. tell him you care very deeply for him but your just not sure what to think anymore.if you try to be to pushy you will just push him away completely. be supportive and understanding. he is just out of a relationship and you dont want to be a rebound for him. give him time if he needs it and be there for him if he needs a friend.
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