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male
age
26-29,
*koh
writes: For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually gay. Everyone I know says to be gay you have to not only like the male gender sexually but also perfer relationships with them. I prefer relationships with women. So my question is does this mean that I am straight, bisexual, gay or something else? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jkoh +, writes (19 January 2009):
jkoh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do feel attracted to boys, get aroused and everything, I just prefer relationships with females, though I am not attracted to them(females).
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): You are so young that you cant really say for sure that you are gay, you say you feel sexually attracted to boys if I could ask you to elaborate on that just a bit, do you look at other boys and think he has a great body then get aroused or what is it, I don’t think that you are gay, I know of a guy who gave his best friend a blow when he was just 13 they got drunk and somehow the 2 boys ended up giving each other head, but he is not gay he has a great girlfriend and they have been together for a long long time, I would say you might be curious but no not gay.
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