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writes:My relationship began in February 2000. I was living with a man on and off for the last 9 years. The problem was that he cheated once with an ex girlfriend, next with a co-worker and the last one was with one of his friends. During this time, my mother was diagnoised with Cancer. I lost her in 2004. This man is 10 years older than I am. I'm 50 years old and he's 60 years old. He was recently in the hospital for a hip replacement. One night after a night of drinking, I called him. We had a few dates with sex. At his apartment this weekend, his girlfriend came over unannounced. We spoke today and he tells me that he is not comfortable with us as a couple and that we should not be together. I'm sure he is right but I'm so sad and feel betrayed, once again. How do I go on? Any suggestions. All I can do is cry. Lost in NYC
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Of course it's going to be hard to get over... but life goes on and there is no point in wasting time on twats like him. He's a cheater. and he seems like scum so just forget it, ignore him, and make new friends/join clubs/hang out with old friends and forget about him. I know it's easier said than done... in particular when you have been with him for ten years but it will help you to get over him. Just tell yourself you're better than that.
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