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My best friend has plans for me and her after high school...and I'm not so sure?

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Question - (15 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello.

I'm a junior in high school.

My best friend is moving to Florida soon...

and well, she has all these great plans for her and I meeting up after I graduated and she plans on us living together so we can go to college together.

Well, I'm not totally sure if i want to go to college so far away from my family and such (plus I don't know how money would work) I still have not decided where I want to go to college and such...and she has all these amazing plans and I just can't be like..yeah I don't know if I want to move down there with you and such.........!

She and I both are very sad that she's moving but she always says "just wait one more year and we'll be seeing each other all the time!"

I feel sooo aweful cuz I don't know how to talk to her about how I might not go down there....

I don't want to where I go to college based on where she wants to go....ya know ?

SOooo the question i'm asking is...:

How do I tell her about it without her getting upset or angry....

Thanks for your help.

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A female reader, TheRabbit United States +, writes (15 January 2009):

TheRabbit agony auntWell, this may sound harsh, but if you aren't even sure you want to go to any Florida school. Then don't apply and you can tell her you didn't get accepted. She can't help that or be upset. Go where YOU want to go. If you don't, you will regret it later.

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