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writes:I love my boyfriend, but we are in a forbidden love, so at school we are together all the time, but deny it when people ask. He is a popular senior at school and he spends some time kind of flirting with other girls and especially the hot ones!!! and I feel a bit jealous and insecure because I wear a 34 B which isn't big.He says he loves my body exactly the way it is, and calls me sexy. So to feel like that I've been putting on really sexy underwear for him, and I've done things to try to make myself feel better, but it doesn't work. Have you any advice to make me feel sexy and try not to get so insucure and jealous around other girls?
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reader, Adee1 +, writes (15 January 2009):
 The first comment was right your chest size has NOTHING to do with how pretty you are. You know what. I feel the same exact way as you right now. My bf is 28 and I'm 19. He works with prettier girls than, me .. I'm pregnant. And I don't think I look pretty or beautiful. At least he tells you darling. Mine, doesn't even say I ::heart:: you or the baby. Me and him been together for 3 years. Just take it one day at a time missy.. Love yourself for who you are. You seem nice, and caring, and you seem like a beautiful person. And thats wat counts the most que no? Your Opionion is the only one that matters then, your bfs. And he agrees. Dont be so insecure.Just feel confident that hey I got him, and he knows it... :) You have it good darling..You just need to be happee with yourself.
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reader, stellaforstar  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Ok, first, you're chest size has absolutely NOTHING to do with how attractive you are!! Seriously girl, get that one out of your head QUICK because it's not true.
Your boyfriend loves your body, which is good, but most important is for you to learn to love it! You're the one who has to live with it.
And second, i'm pretty sceptical about you having to deny your relationship, why is this? A relationship which is not out in the open is never good for anyone, because it will make you feel like a dirty little secret. But everyone flirts. It's just a fact. Shake it off. But really, don't continue in a relationship which isn't honest, it just isn't worth it darling.
Plus, from your age, i'd say you shouldn't worry about sexy underwear etc. Just be yourself, have fun!
I found that first i had to like my personality, be happy with who i was, and only then could i focus on my body. And you'll find that projecting confidence is 99% of being sexy. The other 1% is just lighting ha ha.
Anyway, good luck xx
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