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Why do I feel like I'm in the wrong group of friends?

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Question - (15 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *otmoney13 writes:

HEYY!!!! again lotmoney13!!!!!anyways i dunno why but this question is a lot diffrent from my usual romance questions.

So lately i dunno why but, i've been doubting some of my friendships and i need advice. So some of my friends and i like doing things together and other times, not so much. But me and my friends are soo diffrent and i have to wonder sometimes if i really fit in. i mean we care about eac hother, and we do things for one another, but something inside me wonders.......when i see other groups of friends at school, i see that i would totally fit in there or in that group.....but in the group i'm in, i just dont seem to be the "right one" to make the third in the group.....cuz there are four of us.....

i just dont know why i feel this way....i'm confused and i'm changing in my own ways.....but i really want to stay the same me...and not doubt small things like this....cuz we are close friends and we have each others back and we know all of our secrets.....so why do feel like i'm in the wrong group of friends or i'm spending with the wrong people?

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A male reader, esepalo1 United States +, writes (16 January 2009):

esepalo1 agony auntLet me start off by saying you are who you are by you changing to them to fit in makes you fake.Ive had manny friends growing upthey did stuff i didnt feel right doing and always got bagged on. But threw all those years i never changed who i was cause i couldnt it just wouldnt of been me.Why be some one your not.Just by reading your question i can tell your different and special because it concerns you on what you see and feel about it all.But being different isnt bad its a good thing cause you stand out from the rest do you really want to be like evey one else NOPE.Stand out and be your own person.Let me tell you from experience friends will come and go in your life time trust me ive had and lost alot due to me staying true to myself and beliefs.Deep down youll know who are your friends and who are not TRUE COLORS.MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT.

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