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female
age
36-40,
*inicky One
writes: He got mad at me when I got a boyfriend. I gave him opportunities, but he said that he can't.He must don't like me. But when I try to hug him, he says, "Can' get too close to youcause that vibe I got for you." He hugs a lot of girls, but not me. What makes matters worse is that he has a girlfriend. The thing is, when I asked him why he been with this girl for a long time, he says because he's tired of getting hurt. Doesn't that mean that he don't really like his girlfriend? He asked me the other day that if I think about him when I'm with my boyfriend. Does that mean he thinks about me? I don't even know why I like him(physically) because he isn't attractive. I have dreams about him and all-could it be lust? Sorry for the (infinite) amount of questions.
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reader, Finicky One +, writes (16 January 2009):
Finicky One is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice, esepalo1. It really helps.
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reader, esepalo1 +, writes (16 January 2009):
Seems like he wants to run your life not good he can have a girlfriend and gets mad cause you got one.Its funny we all want what we cant have thats why you feel how you feel.Hes player the i dont like to get hurt card sheeesh who does if didnt like to be hurt then he would be single dont you think.You need to live life for you not him obviously hes happy with the girl who supposly hurts him. I say find your equal who feels how you feel not your opposite who only wants what they want when they want.Its your life not his to say who you can go out with and who not to.And yeah its lust.Dont cut your self short of what you deserve for no one.MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT.
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