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writes:hi, I am male 19 years old and never been in a relationship and this represents a huge problem for me and in my self confedence. I am shy with girls and got nervous when dealing with them, I am afraid and don't have the courage to talk to a girl, there is one girl with me in the college she is very beautiful and I see that she is my dream princess, I want to talk to her very much, it's my dream but I cant, I tried but I couldn't. I asked everyone I know "what to do" but it's useless, I am getting depressed because I need love and care. I care to talk to her although I know that I am good lover and if I loved someone I'd worship them. I know I have spoken a lot but I needed to talk to someone. Please help me because I am too shy and afraid for just talking to girls, even I have no friends that are girls.
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reader, esepalo1  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 Dont feel bad i was like that growing up i was shy and afraid of girls not because i didnt like them but just really afraid of rejection.Just be yourself nobody want a pake person to many people try to get girls by acting like some one there not you got to have confidece and pride and know who you are in the inside dont focus on the outer layer its whats in the inside that counts to many people focus on the outer and that makes them shallow dont be one of them.Pop out and just try talking to her the worst she can say is no dosnt mean life stops there plenty more to go and find plus your still young wont be the last time you get rejected shoot i got shot down lots of times but hey i still pushed on and rolled with it no biggie.The main thing is just be you.BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.Live life to the fullest and dont settle for less then what you want and deserve.MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): Hi i to am quite a shy person when it comes to talking to guys and unlike you i havnt yet found someone i like. I think your problem is easy. speaking as a girl if there was almost any guy that said how much he liked me and asked me out i would give him a chance and get to know him. I also know how hard it is to get the courage to do something like this but there is really nothing you can do to stop your nerves besides just breath! You dont know how much better you will feel once you have spoken to her and told her how you feel and even if she does reject you at least you know you tried! you just need to get yourself un stuck and talk to her!
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