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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with me? I feel as if I have been left behind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - Heya, I'm actually a little embarressed to put this up on here but... I'm 18 years old, I am a female, but I am still a virgin :/ I also havent been in a relationship with a guy before, which is actually my bigger problem... I only had my f...

My boyfriends house mate is acting weird around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My bfs house mate is weird with me. He alternates between staring at me to being awkward and leaving a room I am in. He doesn't hold my gaze if we have a convo and can avoid me all together sometimes. I don't know if he dislikes me - I have never ...

Should I just let him pursue me instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Can you tell me if a guy is interested in me if he does not reply to my email? I sent him an email asking him to get together with me but no reponse from him. It has been a week and I happened to run into him at the mall yesterday. ...

Feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I seem doomed for always having a lonely life. I was brought up in childrens homes and when I did get married after a few years my husband ran off with another woman. I haev ahd boyfriends but no one wanmts commitment these days. I have amde ...

Need advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a ...

Why am I so emotional especially as we weren't even dating and only went on one date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm not very experienced with guys and have had very few relationships. I recently net this guy and we have been talking for a while. So he asked me on a date which didn't quite go to plan and he said it would be best if we just stayed friends. The ...

Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating

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31 July 2011 (M) - Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...

I'm not sure if he is into me, am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Is he into me or not? So i went out for dinner with an old college friend. This is the first time we went out alone.It was not a date, more like two friends catching up. I think both of us had a good time. So he stays in another city. Around 3-...

Everybody at works think we are an item but I am not sure what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I work with a girl who I have developed strong feelings for and I don’t know what to do. She broke up with her boyfriend about 5 months ago and we have become very close, we have spent a lot of time together, going out to dinner, to the movi...

Is life 'uncomplicated' for singletons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Single life, we are told in any case, is the life of riley. However, if you look at the questions on this website and were too do a survey of the martial status of the questioners I bet just as many would turn out to be single as do attached, in ...

Do you think he is having second thoughts about marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused. About 5 months ago I was talking to my boyfriend of 10 months about our future and he didn't say much at all in response. I took this to mean that he wasn't interested in anything other than being boyfriend/girlfriend and just ...

Am I being too fussy and picky when it comes to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm a virgin guy and 20. I've finished my first year of uni. There have been a few girls. I kissed one in a club, danced with a few and there was one i was interested in but she wasn't. Anyway yesterday i met up with my mates who i hadn't seen in a ...

I want him to have a good career and status but he wants to stay and take care of his parents. Is there any solution to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi friends. I have a problem and i really wanna solutn of dat. My bf is the owner of a jwelery shop or say, his father is. His brother has settld himself and has a good career n status of his own. But my bf is just like a care taker of his fat...

We've been online dating for 2 years but have never met in person once....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - How long is too long for a no-contact LDR? When I say no contact, I mean no physical contact. At all. We've been 'dating' online for over 2 years and through that whole time we've never met in person once. I've tried, I've made trips to see him...

Does he think of me as a good mate or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Last nite i stayed round my mates house who i used to like ( still do a little) but he has told me clear that there is no spark there for him, ( we have slept together a few times )before he ound out i liked him Anyway last nite i called him in ...

We fight over silly things and I am totally lost in this relationship..please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I spent the night at my boyfriends house and we had a great time. This morinig he calls me to wake me up instead of walking up the stairs to wake me. I got pissed at this because he could have just walked up and said hey I'm leaving in 15 min. I got ...

What do men think of breast implants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi just wondering about breast implants what do males think of them? and people who have them down short story i have a breast problem when i was 15 i knew i had small boobs but they said when i grew older they would grow to be similar size ( o...

Now that I am 25 I'd love to ask out my 37 yo former teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 25, working in IT, enjoying life. Recently I saw my ex-geography teacher, Jane*, who last taught me at high school 9 years ago way back in 2002. She's about 37 now The last time I saw her - 4 years ago in another town when I was in the p...

Where do I start to meet other gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 23, have Asperger's syndrome, and although I've had some struggles in life, things have got a fair bit better over the past 2 years (well, since November 2008 to be really technical, but...). I find it difficult to make friends, unless ...

It was supposed to be our time, but he had ended up having to work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - I have to admit I am a little annoyed just now. Me and my bf booked our annual leave some time ago and it started yesterday, two weeks. He broke his leg some 6 weeks ago and has been off work since, but it worked out that he needed to go back to ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

The day before he told me he loved me, now nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a very toxic, deluded relationship, but got over the guy and started a thing with someone else. A sweet, loving and caring man. Sometimes we had fights, but in general everything was ok. For about 1,5 year. We talked about getting ...

My boyfriend's mother ---

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Thank you for all advice. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 34. Both my parents are living he has a mom and a drug dealer slash user bro. My boyfriends dad past away a year ago. My boyfriend n I live with my son who is 11, we have dated 3 yrs now. Before h...

How can I tell her in a nice way that I'm no longer interested in her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Okay so I met this girl the other day at a social event and I got her number. Well we went on a casual date and while everything went great something she did finally made me put two and two together. See I have this friend and you know us guys that ...

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went ba...

I'm all for being in a healthy relationship and having our own lives, but I don't even see where ours mesh anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half, and we're not connecting these days. Ever since graduating this past spring and moving 1-2 hours away from each other (1hr by car, 2+ by train), it's been difficult to spend time ...

Why do girls think that all men are scum just because they weren't treated right by a guy once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - It really bothers me when women say that all men are pigs and all men are scum. When I hear girls say that, it kind of offends me. I am a nice guy. Every time I'm around a girl, I'm always a gentleman. (Hold doors open for them, pick up things when ...

I'm not sure how one talks about boundaries in a relationship. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently kissed/made out/cuddled for the first time. He always asked what made me uncomfortable, and stopped when he sensed I didn't like it. When I asked him later if that bothered him, he said no, we were both inexperienced with ...

He's not offering any support -- am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm very upset with my boyfriend and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting or being a jerk. My grandfather was recently hospitalized and has been in and out of congestive heart failure. I am 20 and still living at home. My parents have decided to fly ...

I'm automatically friend-zoned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm not really in this situation at present… still, is it normal for a non-ugly female person to be "friend zoned" by a guy they like? What might they reasons be for this? I only ask because I was reading a website (Urban Dictionary) and the majo...

He doesn't want to love again, but he does want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - How should i act when i see him at work tommorow? he just wants sex? I really like this guy at work. He stares at me when am not looking and am the only girl he chats to at work. I thought he was sweet. So I gave him my number. We got chatt...

How do I tell guys that like me that I don't like them back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I dont know how to tell the guys that like me, that i dont like them back. (yes, guy(s) - there is 2) The first one is like my best friend, i've known him for 7 years and we've always been best friends but recently he started developing feeli...

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

Does he actually want to marry me or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years and living with him for a year and a half. I w ant to get married and start a family and he says he does too. He. Say's we can't get engaged right now as he can't afford an engagement ring, (I don't want ...

She's accusing me of cheating on her and being jealous of her male friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently. However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends. The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along we...

What's going on with my relationship?!? any ideas anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Right so i gotta ask something, ive used the site before but never for anything concrete like this. So me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been really happy together. Its been really really good. around a month ago she had to go on holiday, she ...

I'm leaving soon should I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I am due to leave in Sept for further studies from my home country, for the next two years, at least. The problem I'm facing is concerned with my feelings for a girl. I have known her for a year now, and I have developed deep fee...

Should I cancel the trip or go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Okay so, I have had this crush on this boy for quite a while - but it was an innocent crush, more just from afar. I went to high school with him, he was two years above me. It never even crossed my mind anything would happen because we were just ...

How do you tell someone that you like them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - We're friends for sure, good friends. But I sense that maybe she may like me, we've only known each other well for maybe 6 months, before that she had a boyfriend and we hardly ever talked at work. Then when she broke up I turned it on and now we're ...

Do emotional gestures actually mean anything or does it just mean something if your in a relationship?

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30 July 2011 (F) - a friend and i were talking about relationships..he is sort of a player..we were talking about cheating and the reasons why people do it etc..he said it is a horrible thing and from a guy's perspective we sometimes cheat even if we are happy in a ...

I like the idea of a boyfriend but I don't like pressure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - i'd like a boyfriend and when i think about having one i think it'd be great, but then when i'm around a boy that likes me ... things change and i feel like i'm being pressured into things. i've never been pressured into anything but i don't ...

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...

I really like this guy but think he is not interested...should I delete his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Why didnt he reply? is he just not interested? i like him alot.? I really like this guy work. He stares at me when am not looking, he smiles whenever we talk and he's very friendly with me. I gave him my number and he rang me and ta...

Is it normal for some men not to be into sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hiya, Well, I was just wondering if it was normal for some men not to be into sex...? My boyfriend of 18 months goes through sages when he is like a rabbit then dosent want to do nothing. Of course he never turn down the blow job when he is like...

Clingy boyfriend is suffocating the life out of me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is getting on my nerves so much! He wants to see me every single day! I no thats nice, and its nice to feel wanted but i want my own space. Ive only been going out with him for a month, and now its the six week holidays and its the ...

Have I wasted my time and energy with this guy....why did he change so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I'm really upset because i thought a guy i was friends with really liked me when we first met 2 years ago he showed a real interest in me, i liked him a lot and helped him through a lot of personal trauma, he was in a bad financial way and again i ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

How do I stop my new boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise....

My mom thinks that wet bath mats and talking loudly are deal breakers! How do I get her to accept my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I was so worried to tell my mom I got engaged to my boyfriend. We went back to my hometown to tell her in person and I was so relieved when she seemed to take the news well (ish) that I cried. But my partner went home a couple of days before me, and ...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

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30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...