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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I just have no idea how to approach a woman that I'm attracted to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - I'm 21 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. I grew up in literally the middle of nowhere, with nobody my own age within miles of me - the closest was my brother, 5 years my junior. I had very little contact with other kids due to this, and ...

So we're back to being friends again after I unfriended him for being unreliable and only wanting to see me when drinking was involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - i've posted about this before, but i wasn't very detailed .. so here it is again.. sorry it's so long!!! In february, I started seeing a guy. He is 22 and i am 20 (was 19 at the beginning). our first date was at a gig, drinking etc, and it went...

12 jobs in 5 years and now he wants to quit this job!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - In 5 years my boyfriend has had 12 jobs. The longest term of employment is 10 months and this is with his current job and he is wanting to quit. We live together, have bills and I have 2 kids from a previous marriage. He owes child support on 2 ...

Lost, don't want to hurt anyone including myself!

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12 July 2011 (M) - Okay. Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years. We live together and rent the back house of her gramas house. We fight, not all the time but a lot of the time. Im not jealous and shes not either but i just feel like i need to move on. but im ...

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and single and, with the exception of a brief three month relationship about three or four years ago, have always been single. I am quite often told that I am good-looking, I am over six feet tall and am a pretty ...

My girlfriend thinks I am an angel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - I am from Pakistan but moved to US one year ago. Just in matter of one month, I fell in love with a beautiful American girl who happened to be 8 years younger than me. She is very nice and always takes care of me like a prince. She's got me ...

I don't want to be intimate with my boyfriend anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I have recently become very distant from my boyfriend. I have been away for three weeks, in within those three weeks i found confinement in my friends and didn't miss my boyfriend at all. Lately, one of my friends has also been tempting me to cheat ...

Should I date a man 15 years my senior, whom I share few common interests with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Should I pursue a relationship with someone who is 15 years older than me. I'm physically attracted to him and he is incredibly caring but we have no common interest. Although we can talk to each other for hours about various things. He is very ...

How do I break things off without hurting her, so we can just be friends again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating this girl, lets call her Jessica* who used to be my best friend, we just took it a little further. In the begging I was madly in love with her, then Jake* asked her out and she got all excited and said yes and they started going ...

Dating a girl with a child, what do people think about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I need to know,what are peoples views on girls/women with children.What do guys think about it,is it something guys would go for,or stay away from,also what are the statistics, and societys perception of it.Also give reasons as to why or why you ...

Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...

Girls: Have you ever been rejected?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Girls have you ever approached a guy and had him reject you? I am not talking about being dumped. I am talking about when you first meet a guy, you put yourself out there and ask him out and he shoots you down. I have this theory. Most girls seem ...

Girlfriend lied to impress me, how can I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Should I bother with this girl anymore? She has basically lied to me since I first met her about who she is I guess to impress me. The thing is now I think she is someone that she's not and of course I feel hurt and confused. She has apologized but ...

He keeps standing me up and hurting me badly, but now he wants to see me again - should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - His someone i love so much. however he never has time for me. when i try seeing him, he always says his busy. sometimes we plan to meet, and when he stands me up. i feel hurt and end up being depressed for a week however now he wants to see me. ...

Should I hang around or am I being messed around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - so weve spoken about me and her restarting our relationship after we split and ive made all the improvements she wanted, but she has now said. 'if i want you back ill let you know, but for now its a no' should i hang around or am i being messed a...

How should I go about giving him my number? I don't want to seem desperate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - How should I go about doing this? i really like him:)? Am new at my workplace and there's this gorgeous guy there really nice. Friendly and very helpful. He talks me and flirts with me but he doesn't do that with other girls there Is j...

Does she like me or the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Well there is this girl that i think she might have an intrest in me, but there is this other guy in the picture, and i think that she might like him or maybe not. (Keep in mind that me and this girl already had a flirting thing going so) Well f...

Should I end the cute flirting when I know we'll be going separate ways soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I really like a guy and I know neither one of us are going to act on our feelings because summer is going to come to an end and we're going to have to go our separate ways to different colleges in different states soon. It is really hard though ...

Why is he so hot and cold with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I don't get it. He told me he like me and days/weeks later he doesn't call, texts, or even talk to me. Just yesterday he decided to talk to me. What wrong with everything?...

BF is married and lied to me about being separated from his wife, having sex with her and having another kid that I didnt know of. Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Five months ago I met this guy who seemed like a good guy and was fun to hang around. From the first moment we met he admitted to me that he had a son who was in the first grade, and showed me pictures like any proud father. Even though I myself ...

Guy breaks up with girlfriend to date me but now feels sorry for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I have known this man from work for 4 years. It another department in another city so we rarely run into each other. It has been so obvious he had a crush on me. When he finally asked me out 2 YEARS later via email, I was very surprised but I was ...

My relationship vs. 'what if'!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship now for about a year now, and we have seen eachother about 4 times since then. He is 11 hours away. He is trying to get a job down here, but he has a lot of financial issues hes taking ...

So why did he ask me for (not nude) pictures?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hello! I just wanted to ask for some outside advice on a guy that I recently met. I'll start at the beginning. I work in retail,and he was at my work for a couple of days selling subscriptions to our customers. Pretty much every female,including ...

So is my 'boyfriend' cheating on me? What should I do? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - ive been talking to this guy that i work with for about 2 years. we've always had something going on like kissing all the time flirting and texting.. a week and a half ago, he asked me to be his gf. he always tells me he is in love with me and i ...