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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does she like me? How do I know for sure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I think this girl likes me since she always hangs out with me around the house (she lives next door) and when we're with friends she always talks alone to me and smiles a lot (and flirts a little) but when I asked her is she wants to come to the ...

Ideas for some summer fun?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hey, what are some fun at home things my boyfriend and I can do besides movies, video games, or cooking? We sometimes have water fights or play with the dogs, but we just want some more ideas, seeing as neither of us can drive the other legally(I ...

Should I contact him again or is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - hi, i met this guy on a night out, we was with each other most of the night. we swaped numbers and had been texting and he told me he really likes me, hes in the army so not home for 2 weeks but said well met up then. but for the last 2 d...

We split-up but I'm confused as to what he wants...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - im so confussed, me and my ex boyfriend split about 2 months ago. we stop contacted for about a month but then got back in contact. we have been talking and texting but both said we cant get back together. but one night on a night out i seen...

How do I make him get the hint he's starting to creep me out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys! I'm in need of some advice. Sorry if this is a repeat, I accidentally posted before I finished typing it the first time! 2 months ago I met a guy through some friends. Ran into him again at a mutual friend's b-day party and we ended up ...

I wanted to know what he was up to on facebook!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend left his facebook open at my place. So i checked it. I saw that he chatted with ex girlfriends, and also flirted with them. He also said he wasn't secure about his relationship with me..and that there are loads of other cute girls, ...

Do you have any advice on what I should say to him?

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20 July 2011 (F) - I sent a message to this guy i like asking him if he is doing anything nice for his birthday at the weekend. he said he isnt going out as he has his son with him this weekend. his son stays with him every other weekend. he also told me that he ...

A girl I liked said her ex was back but wanted to stay friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - Dear all, I want your opinion on this: I met this girl and we went out on 3 dates. Some dates I initiated and some she initiated. We had such a good time, we talked, laughed and flirted for hours and we had so many things in common, but I didn't m...

Am I deluding myself or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I am a mature student and my personal tutor is 5 years older than me. I have one more year of study remaining. For the last four years, I really felt sure that this man liked me A LOT, but believed he was married and so I never flirted openly with ...

Do I really have to "treat her mean to keep her keen"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I'll try and boil it down to basics. There's a girl who I really like due to many reasons; she's extremely attractive but the main being that we connect on many levels. Whenever I talk to her, it seems like we've known each other for ages, not ju...

Should I wear my contacts on my date tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Quick question, I have a date tomorrow with this guy and every time he has seen me i've had my contacts in, I'm wondering should i wear them again tomorrow or not? I'm just thinking if this turns into anything, wouldn't he rather see what i look ...

If a woman already likes you, does it really matter what you say to them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - Hope its ok to ask quite a short and simple question: Ive been told by a friend that in regards to a woman, when talking to them it doesnt really matter what you say, if they already like you, thats half the battle won. Us men can say some ...

Ladies - do you 'reward' a guy if he makes the extra effort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - This is not really a problem, more just another question to help with my understanding of the opposite sex. I need all the help I can get in that regard, and Im not the most outgoing guy in the world, also a bit shy. I have experienced a co...

I want to ask her out again. How do I do it without making things awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - well Ive been friends with this girl for a couple of years now and we have gotten to know each other quite a bit now. I want to ask her out but i have already done this before and she said it felt kind of weird if we went out. Although its never ...

Never been kissed and always pictured myself alone. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I'm 19 (going on 20) years old and have never been kissing, asked out on a date, or anything by a guy. The most attention I've ever got from a guy is from a far (i.e. them just staring at me), but them NEVER seen to ...

My boyfriend is immature...will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of two years have a child. He's 23 and I'm 21 he has another child with a woman out of state. He doesn't work, he's on unemployment and is going to school. It seems as if I'm doing all the work with the baby and with trying to ...

If I stop making everything so easy for him...will he become more interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy and I think he has been taking advantage of the fact that if he stops talking to me to talk to someone else. That when he's done or finished with the other girl he can come right back and I'll take him back. So what ...

He cheated on me! I feel so gross, so horrible and devastated! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Yesterday I found out that my ex cheated on me last Thursday. He said nothing, he made me believe we were fine. But a friend told me he saw my ex with another girl. One of his slut friends... you know, the typical girl who hooks up with all guys in ...

Is it just a normal guy thing to be like this, or should I worry? I seem to come second after his porn and video games.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now, and we have known each other for over 11 years, we were best friends growing up, and everything was great in the begining but now, it just seems like i get pushed aside for his vide...

Am I doing too much analysis? Sometimes I think he doesn't care at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys.. I have been "casually sleeping" with one of my ex boyfriends for a little over a month now. We had been broken up for almost 4 years, were both 20 now. (i'm almost 21) I state it like that because we do more than just casual sex. He u...

Two girls. Are the signs there that they do both like me?

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20 July 2011 (M) - Can you agree or disagree with my surmising here? I think that one of my good friends likes me. So this girl Y that I've known for about a year has been an awesome friend. I consider her a close friend. I took her to prom and she asked me bac...

He does so much for me it's affecting my self esteem. How can I fix this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I am not Miss Independent, My man pays for everything, i don't have a job, I recieve a disable check which pays the rent and that's it, I don't even have my own car cos i don't know how to drive, He takes me everywhere, Appts, exc. Problem is it's ...

How much porn is TOO much? Is my boy friend's need for Porn excessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Im usually cool with porn. I watch it myself several times a week and often browse naughty picture websites. I generally see it as not a big deal most the time. Sure, sometimes it upsets me and makes me feel bad but I understand those are MY ins...

He's slapped me during sex. Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue? my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me a...

Are these fears valid? I am afraid of my future husband's reaction in regards to my sexual history

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I feel so disgusted and upset with myself and I can't tell anyone. I turned 19 yesterday and have been on/off with a man who has narcissistic personality disorder for 5 years. He is a total jerk one day, super nice the next, it has always been lik...

I'm really nervous about kissing...I have no idea how to do it!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I have never kissed anyone and neither has my boyfriend. He used to be very shy and quiet like me, but suddenly is teasing me about kissing all the time. I am really nervous. I have no idea how to do this, and now I feel worried sitting close to...