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writes:Right so i gotta ask something, ive used the site before but never for anything concrete like this. So me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been really happy together. Its been really really good. around a month ago she had to go on holiday, she still is and wont be coming back for another couple of weeks. WE left each other really well promising to see each other first thing when we got back and to keep in contact alot. However in this entire month shes replied i would say 2 times to various messages and txts. Today i finally managed to get her online at the same time as me (dif countries and her phone doesnt work) we had a relatively normal conversation if a bit strained. She refused to skype as usual but that isnt anything knew to me. However it was when we said goodbye to each other it went down hill. Remember this is all in fb chat cause she wouldnt talk to me anywhere else. I told her i loved her which ive said before ( a bit early i know, im stupid that way) and she normally replies in kind or starts it herself. She replied with nothing but "nite". I asked her y the sudden change and all of a sudden she is blaming me for not talking to her enough. Finally after alot of objections on my part she tells me to forget her and enjoy my self. She said to do things im not allowed too do and to have fun and that she'll talk to me later. WTF does that mean? My friends say she's probs been hooking up with other guys and wants me to start moving on? she has also told me to expect a hand written letter in the next few days which i find very odd.wats going on?
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reader, GoodDog +, writes (31 July 2011):
 Sounds like she's been doing some thinking while on holiday. Are you sure things were okay between you before she left for her trip? Maye there was something on her mind which you didn't notice.
It could be as your friends say and she's met someone else, but if she's only away on holiday she would realise that it's not going to last - it's just a fling.
Anyway, if it was me I would just sit tight for a while and say nothing until you get this letter from her.
Let us know how you go on.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 Yep something's up. Why do you want to be with this girl is what I'm wondering. It doesn't sound like she's very nice to you or makes you very happy.
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