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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me but I have never had a girlfriend before so I son't know how to do this. How do I ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend? She is a neighbor so I see her often and she sometimes comes at my house ...

Girls say they don't like me in "that way"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I really miss being in a relationship and I just want a girlfriend again, but no one ever seems to like me in that way and if they have they tell me like 2 years later. The girls I like always say they don't like me that way so how do I go about not ...

Can you teach someone to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - so right here it is in a nutshell. I have been dating this girl, she's apples, really a sweetheart, very very pretty, charming, the whole lot. problem is---she cannot communicate. when she is upset, she shuts down and wont talk. wont tell wh...

Boyfriend punching things because he couldn't find his wallet. Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hiya lovlies last weekend my bf and I planned a last minute roadtrip to his home town, he picked me up and we had to go to his place as he thought he left his wallet back at home. We got to his house, searched the whole place and could not find i...

How can I ask her out and word it like its not a date but hints at being a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - We're friends but I like her, I can't tell her just yet though because we work (retail) together and it can make the situation very awkward. We've hung out alone twice before and I feel like every time progress has been made, I think she may li...

He said it was "unofficial," what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - he said it was "unofficial" and i don't know what thats supposed to mean,i want to ask him about it but i don't want to make it awkward between us or make him feel pressured. we joke around all the time about getting married and he asks me if there ...

How do I deal with my friends who delve too much into my personal life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I have a friend of mine that I can talk to anything about, but I can't stand talking to him about my sexual past with women. Whether it be from a simple kiss, to sleeping with someone. He asks more questions and gets into detail and kind of has a ...

How do I get over wanting to compete with my straight-A girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Hi there. So I've got a relationship problem. My girlfriend is a straight A student. She gets A's for all her subjects and this really gets to me because I am a B and C student. While I know my marks are good,it still gets to me. I turn it into a ...

We're about to part for the summer -- how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - ok i really like this boy and ive liked him for like a year basically. without really have much contact with him, he knows who i am and were had short convosations in the past and im in a lot of his classes. i watch him looking at me a lot. and ...

Is it worth going after a man who is very popular with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Is it worth going after a guy who is very attractive, and who a lot of girls fancy ?. This guy seems interested in me. I think he is very attractive, but i've noticed from his facebook page that a lot of girls find him attractive. They post comments ...

I think he was only after sex, but I still want to be friends with him! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hey, The other week this guy I've known for about 6 months contacted me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to hang with him. I said okay since he was pretty nice and I'd like to get to know him better but then he started asking me to have sex with...

What is the best way to pick up a girl in a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Hey. I'm 18 and have the simplest question ever. When I'm out clubbing, what's the best way to 'pick up' a girl? I'm not that interested in the casual sex, I want to meet someone and actually get to know them. How should I do it without getting too ...

Do you think you can determine how attractive you are by how attractive the people who hit on you are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I think that the question pretty much says it all. Do you all think that you can only be as attractive as the most attractive person that hits on you or asks you out? So if people you consider good looking ask you out, you are probably good looking ...

I think I've found the one. Need some post first date advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - So i met this girl after a concert and we've had each other's numbers for over 3 weeks and after asking her 3 times to hang out, i finally give up. about a week later she texts me when i woke up before she even started her day. she get's drunk ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care much about my feelings and always says that I'm "overreacting"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years now. For the most part, it has been a long distance relationship, but we see each other every time we can and I am sure that he's faithful. The problem is that he doesn't seem to care much about my ...

Does my boyfriend's ex-wife still turn him on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I'm in my 40's and divorced and so is my boyfriend. He and his ex have a good, civil relationship and it works really well for everyone. She's a very calm pretty rational woman and I don't get the thought like he's going to leave me for her like I ...

I don't know if he is gay or not - do you think he likes me? What should I do about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I am definitely dealing with some crap. I know that others have gone through much worse, and I am not downplaying anyone else's situation, I just have no desire to do pretty much anything unless it's with Josh. Pretty much the only reason I leave ...

Choices. Can't decide between two perfect men. What do I base my decision to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I've noticed that other women on this forum have gone through or are going through a similar situation to mine. However, mine is a slight variation and the advice to the others didn't really apply. Here's my situation: I just recently broke o...

Should I just stay patient, until they break up? She's with my friend. I had my chance but left it too late to try

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - hi guys i recently asked for help on getting closer to this girl who i like. But i found out yesterday from my friend who i respect and i think hes a nice guy that he goes out with her and he even told me he loves her a lot! How am i supposed to f...

There's no spark. Can we save this relationship? Everything we try seems to not work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I could really do with some advice... My fiancee and I have been together for a year and 3 months and engaged nearly 7 and it feels as if the 'spark' has gone from our relationship. I suffer from Clinical Depression which has caused strain on...

He says he still loves me. Can I trust my ex after he cheated with hookers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I recently broke up with my ex two months ago because I found out he was sleeping with hookers when he was working away. He's now back at home and wants to start over again. I love him dearly but he broke my heart. He says he is still in love with ...

What can I do? I have met a lovely new guy. But my ex still has a place in my heart, despite his cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend who wants us to get back together. He cheated on me with Hookers but says he is still in love with me. I have met a new guy and he is lovely but my heart still longs for my ex. Can I truely trust my ex. again...

We got back together, but how long will it last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Thanx for the advice guys, but on Tuesday me an my ex got back together. I guess he really did miss me, but how can I tell how long it will last? The last few times its been a month, but we really missed each other, spent the whole night cuddling in ...

Do guys care if their girlfriend is taller than them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy my friend introduced to me too online for quite awhile and he's going to be in my area soon soon so we're going to meet in person. I am tall, 5"10 to be exact, and I know he is about four to five inches shorter t...

How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my ...

My man's kid plays with her kid, and I am worrying that the mum is coming on to my man!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hi agony aunts and uncles, i hope you can give me some advice on this problem i have, i always come to this site for advice, it might be nothing, but from a outside view you will be able to tell me if i am being silly or it needs addressing. I am...

He replies to my texts but never wants to meet up. Is he really interested?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Do you think this guy is shy, or not interested? He gave me his number, and he always replies to me when i send him a message. But he hasn't asked me to meet up with him, and the times when we were supposed to meet up, he said he didn't have a lot ...