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*ebeccaa
writes:My boyfriend is getting on my nerves so much! He wants to see me every single day! I no thats nice, and its nice to feel wanted but i want my own space. Ive only been going out with him for a month, and now its the six week holidays and its the first week and ive seen him every single day since we broke up from school. Im slightly ill at home at the minute my mum and step dad are splitting up and they cant stop arguing, and my boyfriend asked if he could come round and make me feel better and i said no, and he kept begging and begging.What do i do? Am i wrong to feel slightly sufacated?
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reader, jjj8885  +, writes (30 July 2011):
I agree with BEAUTY2010, you need to let him know that, but just keep in mind that he might be doing that to please you, as in trying to show you how much he loves you. Lot of guys, including me, feel that continuous contact with their mates is a way of expressing feelings, maybe even commitment; just differs in degree of control. Another thing is you should consider his lifestyle; maybe at times he likes to accompany you continuously as a friend, because of his not-so-social pattern.
In the end you need to solve it because any relationship that produces to much pressure on any part doesn't last long, cause you can't live like that forever.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (30 July 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (30 July 2011):
 Hey. Simplely tell him as nice as you can that all though you love him you want some time on your own or to go out with friends. Tell him you do really appreciate him wanting to see you all the time but sometimes he can get a little bit annoying and everyone needs there own space.
Hopefully he will understand and back off a little, maybe youy could just arrange a couple of days a week to meet up and do something together or the both of you go out with friends. If your abit concerned because your mum and step dad are having abit of a rough time at the moment when your better arrange to meet up out of the house.
If he still carrys on to be clingly then be alot more firmer with him and to the point so it will defointly go in.
Good luck x
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reader, Beauty2010 +, writes (30 July 2011):
 Just tell him how you feel. Let him know right now is not a good time for him to come around all the time, due to the fact of your parents' issues. Let him know that you really have been enjoying seeing him the past week but you think it's best and healthier if you guys don't see each other everyday because that can break up the relationship. And no, you're not wrong of feeling a little suffocated. That's normal.
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