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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he flirting and playing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - A guy I've been talking to for a while asked me if I have ever had a proper bf. I said no and then he said I deserve a perfect man because I'm lovely and he'll be lucky when I do get one. I'm so confused what he means! He has been flirting with me ...

He kisses me and cuddles me but he calls me a friend. I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - OK so I have been out of the dating scene for quite some time. I met a guy and we hit it off immediately... we text and chat to each other constantly... he rings me at least once a day which I really enjoy his phone calls. we have spent a few ...

I'm scared of asking people out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - I'm scared of asking people out is my problem here, My friends will laugh If I get turned down so will hers Wont be able to be friends Weird everytime we see each other What can I do so that I am not scared of asking people out and being rejec...

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Ok so here we go, it mite get a little lengthy but bear with me please. So I am 17 and was with a 21year old. (Please no comments on that) We we're together about 5months and grew, unexpectedly, very strong feelings for each other. We had a rough ...

Am I wrong to be trusting him? It all seems too good to be true!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm inexperienced with guys and I can be really naive. So in really worried that I've been too believing with this guy.So I met this guy and we started talking so before I left he came up and hugged me his excuse he just felt like it. So that night ...

I don't feel comfortable letting my boyfriend see me in full light!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I still feel a bit awkward about the idea of letting my boyfriend see me without a stitch on during the daytime, or with the lights on after dark. I'm pretty comfortable about most of my body being unclothed but when it comes to the parts hidden by ...

Is he reducing contact because he is losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly five months and up until the last few days all has been going really well. He has always been really good at initiating contact and texts me loads of times in the day. He will regularly text me to tell me what he'...

Any cute ideas to surprise my girlfriend when she gets back from her holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is on a cruise for a week and I haven't been able to communicate with her at all. Any cute ideas to surprise her for when she gets back? She's very into the whole cute, romantic idea things. We're both 17 and I don't really have a ...

Somewhere along the line he decided he didnt want a relationship but is still trying to string me along.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - About 5 months i started seeing this guy i met through a mutual friend. When we first met he chased me so hard and it took a little convincing before i just let go and went for it. As i was trying to get over previously being mucked around by ...

How do you say sorry to your partner for not being there when they needed you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - Which is the best way to say sorry to your gf/bf when for not being available in their time of need??? I know some things are just not forget but how can we make it little less hurting for them. I feel really bad for caring less for the person w...

How do I catch THAT fish?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - The saying 'There's plenty of fish in the sea', followed by 'I dont care, I want THAT fish!' My problem is that the above saying very much rings true to my situation at the moment (in regards to a girl). Any suggestions on how one catches T...

I like 2 different girls who might like me too, but they are both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - So... I'm interested in two different women at the same time, and I think they think I'm funny and might consider a relationship with me, except that they're both in one two, though both of theirs is bad... Any ideas? And I'd like to remain friends ...

I'd like to date him, but my mother says he'd a bad influence!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Teenage girl confused here. I started working with this guy who goes to my school. He's going to be a senior in high school and we've been mayjorly flirting. Even our boss tells us to stop flirting. Everyone at work thinks we're dating. ...

Is there a way we can be together without sneaking out of my house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend want to hang out more but neither of our parents approve of our relationship so anyone have any suggestions on how we could? he lives like 10 miles from me so its not like we can walk, but he has a car. He lives in a little ...

Dating for three weeks and he says he loves me and means it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I`ve had a boyfriend for three weeks. He never leaves my side and he always tries to be with me 24/7. Hes happy around me but not when hes with other girls. My boyfriend is now telling me he loves me and he really means it. Im starting to feel the ...

Do I keep my baby and raise it with a man who won't even let me finish school because he is afraid I will "meet" someone new? Or do I abort it and go back to the guy who possibly fathered my child, denies it, yet wants to rebuild our relationship? ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm not on here to be judged. I'm here to get honest heartfelt opinions from people who don't know me. Here is my story, I'm 18 years old, high school drop out, been through the bad and the good. My life is not one to be judged, I was in court bat...

Is it love, or is it loneliness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - Love or loneliness? When I finally decided to tell her my feelings, she asked me if I really liked her or if I really liked being with her. Honestly, I couldn't think of an answer, and I still can't answer that. She says that she was worried that...

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - So i was just wondering if this guy likes me. A simple question, but i find it very hard to read people so i would just like a opinion. So i met this guy about a month ago and we always been kinda flirty with eachother. Then again, we both j...

How can I get the courage to be more forward and keep men's interest without seeming clingy or slutty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm 24 a virgin and currently single. Have been for the last two years. I have gone on several dates in that time and none of them progressed into anything. . . I'm getting really discouraged. I'm not the type to be very physical on a first or ...

What's the deal with this guy? Should I just leave things and walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I like a guy who's friends with someone i dated 5 years ago. We met recently a couple of times and got on really well. He said he would let me know when he's back in the country as he works abroad to meet up again. I was aware he returned t...

Is a smile all it takes to break the ice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - There is this guy who i've seen and even though we've never spoken, his behavior/body language and the way he looks at me, it's clear that he's attracted to me! But he comes across too shy to do anything about it. Well i'm the same, but figured if i ...

Stress is damaging our relationship and our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Hi... My boyfriend and I have been in a very long, and for the most part, very good relationship. We have been having an absolutely awful couple of weeks...both on his part and mine. Lately, I feel like he has been very selfish and inconsid...

Can we survive a long distance relationship?

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18 July 2011 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months. We have gone through a lot in those 3 months. Its been pretty bad. I started to hear rumors about her. That she was cheating on me(I found this out around after our first month). I ...

Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...

Is it a break or a break up??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - On Friday my girlfriend, who is about to be 18, told me that she thinks we needed to take a break over the weekend because she wants to make sure she wants to be with me 100%. She told me that she loves being with me and is happy with me, but ...

He'll be there and I'll be here, why did he wait to ask me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) - Well hi, I am so frustrated, I need advice or just some opinions on my situation. Please help. So, me and this guy started talking over a year ago. After a week of talking he told me he liked me, then after two weeks of hanging out and constant...

How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears? Because I really want to, but whenever i feel i'm getting close to a guy, i guard myself and start pushing him away. I try not to do it, but most of the time i do it subconsciously ...