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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Any advice on what to do and what not to do on the first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Me and my friend went to meet her boyfriend and his friend in town. (it was the first time i've met his friend) We went to the pictures and my friend and her boyfriend was so cute together, cuddling and kissing. Anyway, i took his friends number a...

I work at a gym. How do I approach a girl that comes in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - Question for the guys, i've got a problem, put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would do. I work at a gym and this girl is a regular member there, she is probably the most attractive girl who uses this gym. When i first saw her if i'm ...

I really love my GF and don't want to lose her but how do I deal with all the insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - hi i am in a relationship with my gf more than three years.we both love each other a lot.But recently we hav started fighting a lot.these may be the reasons first of all she is not that expressive she only says i luv u when i say no initiati...

My girfriend doesn't respect her parents. Ethically, how can I get her to see this is wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - I was born outside USA and so notice some cultural differences in how my girlfriend relates to her parents. I have had an American girlfriend for the last 2 years. We seem to have been hitting the spot ever since we got off to a good start. But I do...

Ideas for a "welcome home" surprise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Ok, so I need some advice on how to surprise my bf in a respectful kinda way tomorrow. I've been away on holiday with my female friends for a week, and get home tomorrow. My bf works shifts and is on Nights, but has asked me to let myself into his ...

My ex wanted to meet me and now he doesn't because I couldn't make it, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I have had a relationship with a guy who i think is my soul mate.The kids got on well and this lasted 9 months.He was going through divorce after 26 years of marriage and I was separated 3 years but needed to do my divorce.He told me he could't be ...

Is he interested? Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - So this is not as complicated as it i think it is.. I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years 2 months ago. Yes, i was the 'bad one' for calling it off. We were making each other miserable, i was falling ill because of it, it was not worth th...

Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...

What topics are important to talk about on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I'm going on my first date, and I need to know which topics are important to talk about for future dates so I get a good idea of what sort of person he is. Things like future goals, etc. Any advice?...

How can I feel sexy again? The guy I was seeing doesn't seem interested anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Hi... Lately I've felt tired all the time, and I feel really sensitive about my body. I feel fat. I feel as though the man I was seeing has lost interest in me because I'm not sexy anymore. He rarely texts me unless he wants a favour. And when...

27, never had a girlfriend, now can't even go out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - I'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship with a girl at all. I can talk to girls though. In my job there are maybe half a dozen girls, all of whom I find attractive and I can chat with all of them. I got on really well w...

I am sure there is an attraction, so why did he tell a friend he didn't want to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I've been interested in a certain guy for a year now, and I have no idea how to handle my situation or figure him out. It's summer vacation now, so I have time to organise myself for when I get back. We talk frequently, and we've been flirting for ...

Is there anymore I can be doing to help my boyfriend out of the rut he is stuck in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. We rarely get into arguments and when we do, it's either about something incredibly dumb or his lack of self-confidence. He is a bigger guy who grew up in an environment where his mom was ...

When she comes to see me, should I tell her my feelings right away or just be friends first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - Well for the first time, i don't have a girlfriend or any lover, but am trying to have, but it seems like a war between me and the girls i am meeting. This is where the story starts,there was a university in my country, i opened internet cafe there. ...

Need guy advice: How can I keep my man interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - To all guys out there: Can you give me tips on how I can keep my man interested with me? I know and feel that he is in love with me and he says it all the time. We are together now for a year and we are still very much in love with each other....

Should I purposely not answer his calls every other day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid! Recently, I befriended this guy who shares everything in common with me. We are both from the same state, love seafood, comedy and share an affinity for basketball to name a few. If our lives weren't constantly on-the-go, we co...

How do I make him see that I am different to other girls and I wont hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - hi everyone so this is my problem me and this man have been having sex for the past 4 months we have just started sending each other dirty pictures and texts we get on really well even though he is 10 years older than me. he has never slept with ...

What should I do, if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - An acquaintance of mine, out of the blue started texting me. We had a few exchanges over about six weeks and saw each other at one social event. How can you get to know someone just by texting? Once, I think there was a slight misunderstanding, ...

Nicknames for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - My bf and i are thinking of nicknames for each other and i can't think of any for him, wanna help me out? Hes kinda nerd like science-y and he likes video games :)...

I've always wanted to tell him I like him but don't want to make a fool of myself or get rejected!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going to see a movie at 7.00 with my friend/co worker. I think he's really cute. My friend thinks he may have a crush on me. And I do on him. He is leaving in a vew days to go to college, I'm only 2 years younger than him. I don'...

Desperate need help for a comeback!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - I'm a shy guy when it comes to dating. I've been seeing this girl sporadicaly along the past 4 months. The thing is that during our last 4 or 5 dates I haven't dared to kiss her although I already kissed her once a very ver long time ago. It seems ...

Should I end it and find a relationship that best suits me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Help. I have been ambivalent in whether or not I should stay with my bf. I need a definite answer asap. We have been together for 2 years. We had some really good times, we have a great connection, and we do love and care for each other. ...

Confused about my actions being perceived

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - Hello! I have a question that hopefully the community can provide some insight. A friend of mine recently became single. Yes I have feelings for her. I first told myself that I would be a friend first, feelings come second because it's the right t...

I want to date this guy but I'm scared. I've been really hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Ok so like 2 months ago I got in contact with an old friend haven't seen him in years.. When I saw him we talked for a bit then when I was leaving he asked me for my # so I gave it to him, later with in a week he calls me wants to hang out.. The ...