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Mixed signals... or false hope?

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Question - (30 October 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, *ileyfg writes:

My bf boke up with me after one year and 5 months. We never had a real fight a couple disagreements but other than that always had agreat time together. I let him get to know my children and now it is over, cause he said he is scared, confused and says he can't get hisself to love me like i love him. Says i am awesome and pure at heart still has deep feelings for me and loves me but just needs time to figure out his head.

I know he was hurt bad by a past relationship but I told him every body has a past but you got to get closure and move on. He calls me every day just to see how I am and for the last week since we broke up he has kept contact. I have text him a couple times in which he calls immediatly just to talk and when I bring up me getting my stuff out of his house he changes the subject everytime... Why?

When I said I would come over and get it he said he wasn't ready to see me yet to wait, so I said I would do it on a day he is at work and then he wouldn't have to see me at all and he still changed the subject. Also he has promised me that he would go with me to a New years eve party already two months away Why? Why does he keep contact, why does he not want to see me and why doesn't he want me to get my stuff yet?

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