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*ggie2485
writes:Okay, I'm new to this. My fiance and I have been together almost 2 years now. When we started out, we constantly on a regular daily basis would have sex. After about six months things started to calm down we would go from every day to 3-4 times a week. and now its like we don't do anything for weeks at a time. its either he is too tired or just not wanting it or I am tired. But then again there are times that he wants it and I don't but I give in to him just so he is happy. Anyone have any advice on how to better my sex life with my fiance? And is it right for me to have sex with him when I don't want it or not in the mood, just to make him happy?
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reader, Aggie2485 +, writes (2 November 2010):
Aggie2485 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your help I will go get some books and read up on it. thank you
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (31 October 2010):
Get a good book on connecting with your partner. I did last week and my boyfriend really appreciated it. I read some of it aloud and we followed the tips and the sex was great! Very romantic and passionate. Try that. It is fine not have sex for a couple weeks, but when you do it make sure it is great. Connect with him emotionally.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 It is alright to have sex with him when you don't feel like it. It's called maintenance sex. It's not all about power, relieving his balls, being a sex object, keeping a man, deferring to him. It's more about putting the effort to connect with each other, letting each other know that they are still desired.
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