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*rsKhandiix739
writes:well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for like 3-4 hours now, with his friends. But he promised when he got home that we would spend time toqether. He hasn't came down yet and he qot mad when i texted him and told him how i felt. Its like he doesn't care at all about how i feel about anythinq. Its always this way.... what should i do ? thanks in advance .
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 February 2010):
Well him going to Church is one thing. But him saying that he wanted to spend time with you and then not spending time with you is another. The problem is that he is still young and immature. Like most boys his age, he probably doesn't understand what a girlfriend really is and is more interested in games and friends because of it. Maybe he's not mature enough or ready for a relationship, and perhaps the best thing you can do is end it so you don't end up really hurt.
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reader, Beccccccy  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Sweetie ..Its says you are about 14 ?? Is that correct ?
Then seriously all seems such a BIG DEAL at 14 , please just do something active and dont worry about it too much .
Hes just a young boy also , you two will be fine ..
Take Care heh
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): You're posted as 13-15 years old, so I'm going to assume that your boyfriend is about 13-15 years old as well. At that age, Valentine's Day isn't high on the priority list whereas video games and his friends are. He's just... not mature right now. And neither are you, for that matter.
If you've been together for under six months, honestly, just let it go. If you're together for next Valentine's Day and he still disappoints you, that's when you can speak up. However, if you've been together for at least a year now, let him know what's on your mind now. Communication is key, love.
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reader, alexis** +, writes (15 February 2010):
 you can do way better!! if he dont care about how you feel, then he isnt worth much. you need someone who will be there for you when you need him, and balance his friends.
show yourself respect, and find someone good! goodluck:)
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reader, dorothy2342 +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Why didn't you go to church with him? Are you both Christian? Was he with Christian friends? Why wern't you there? Does he really not care about anything that concerns you or do you just want more of his time. I can't answer your question without knowing the whole story. Do you want to share the answers to my questions?
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