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Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

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Question - (14 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really confused...could it be a sign that i dont really like him???

plz help

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A female reader, alexis** United States +, writes (15 February 2010):

alexis** agony auntwomen s intuition tells us alot. maybe you wernt completely ready to kiss him so deeply. was he making you uncomfortable? did u tell him& did he calm down and back off? if hes the reason it dont feel rite, &he dont listen to how ur feeling its really bad. he mite escalate to doing even worse.

when its the rite person, and its the rite time, then everything will happen& it will feel rite. this guy just isnt the one.

goodluck:)

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A female reader, hopelessXO Canada +, writes (15 February 2010):

hopelessXO agony auntI know exactly how you feel. The first time I made out with a boy it felt really weird to me. It's just something that you have to get used to, the first time usually doesn't feel right. Give it time, you have to warm up to it. If it still feels weird to you after a while it might be a sign that you don't like him. Hope this helps!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

I know exactly what you mean. The first time I made out with a boy it didn't feel right. But once you do it more it feels great. It's just something that you have to get used to. If you keep doing it and it still doesn't feel right then that might be a sign that you don't like him. But relax, and give it time, if it's meant to be it will feel right.

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