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30-35,
*aleb birchfield
writes:it seems like every time I try to talk to a girl they are interested in me but then they always try to talk to other guys behind my back. I do everything for them but they don't seem to see it. after a certain stage in dating, I treat them like they are the only girls in my life but they don't seem to see that either, what am I doing wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 February 2010):
It might be that you're trying so hard that they think you're coming on a little strong. Be a nice guy, but don't be a doormat. Get to know them, but don't do everything for them. Let the girl do a little chasing too.
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reader, kelsey18 +, writes (14 February 2010):
 Either your attracting the wrong kind of women the kind that think its okay to date dozens of guys at once,that think thats fair (which it isnt) or your being to clingy. you say you do everything for them and you act like there the only girls in your life? hmm. you sound like a nice guy and NICE women like nice men but sometimes a guy can be too nice that its just not attractive to a woman. If a guy overdoes the whole nice buissness i loose interest. If they start calling and texting too much wana b with me all the time i back off. Just watch out for how clingy your being and if you are then try to tone it down a little. Thats just my opinion anyway hope this helps :) x
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