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*horn95
writes:Hmm, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we've done everything. However, i went through his chat logs today and i saw that he's telling his ex that he loves her and she is saying the same back (even though she has a boyfriend too.) I really don't know what to do, he says he loves me all the time, but how can i believe him if he's saying that too his ex girlfriend...
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reader, kelsey18 +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Your young and if your boyfriend is the same age as you then your a very young couple growing up going into adulthood experiencing different emotions day by day. Growing up is difficult the two of you are going through puberty at the moment, your emotions are all over the place. neither of you really know what love is yet..(REAL love) because your too young to have experienced it. My advice would be to not take him too seriously he hasnt made his mind up what he wants. Personally i'd finish it and just enjoy being your age while you can-you don't have half the worries you will do in a few years time so just make the most of now. These are the best years of your life :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): i read stuff like this and i can understand u being upset but i also wonder why u r reading his chat logs. it seems to me that you do not trust him and he does not love you.
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reader, heartbroken1991  +, writes (15 February 2010):
Honey I know wat yuh mean I went through it all put ya head up n tell him that yuh don't like him going back n forth tell him how yuh really feel about this n if he don't understand move on n find some one betta
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reader, Caring Stranger +, writes (14 February 2010):
 you deserve better than this. This guy does not love you if he is saying these things to his ex.
There is also no trust between you which is important for successful relationships.
End it now and move on. you will find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.
good luck xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 February 2010):
If he's telling his ex he loves her, then he doesn't love you. Tell him what you saw, then tell him it's over. Don't sit there being second best.
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