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writes:i am in a commited and long distance relationship.my bf has gone crazy.he says he wants to study and won't allow nebody to interfare,not even me. :( he has started ignoring me.even on valentines day,he didn't msged me much,and when i wanted to talk he said can't msg.i mean can't he take out time just for 1 day as this is such a special day,but he didn't!:( on this day i cried!i mean y is he my bf then if he can't devote time!and i can't leave him as i love him.but dun know how to continue with this relation..this has really made me upset.i mean definately he should study but that doesn't mean that he will forget me like this.he only promised me that nothing will come in between and still he says..but then whats the use of saying it if he can't fulfill what he says.what to do?give me some tips.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya i mean he did devoted time...at night..after 11 but still when i sometimes feel lonely i want to be with him but he gets busy and nah m the first and the last gf...:)
so no problem...i think i am being needy and i should try not to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): If your BF went away to college, he may be losing interest and becoming interested in the girls that are right in front of him at college. I know it's hard but I think you should move on.
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reader, Vickidude +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Ok , I am the same age as you , in XII , and all I can say is CBSE Board exams suck . Though I still had fun on Valentine's Day but I hate academics , he doesn't , so let him prepare for his exams.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 February 2010):
When a guy goes to this length, it's safe to say that he's not interested enough. No man who loves a woman would just totally shut her out of his life. If your boyfriend really cared, he would still be there for you. He's not. The best thing you can do is move on from him and find a guy who does care about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): You are 16. He must be the same age. He has made a wise decision.
You can either follow that and study yourself. Or you can find another boy who'll get romantic with you, on his parents' money.
In either case, you cannot force anyone to spend time with you regardless of what the reason.
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