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We were both drunk - he kissed me but didn't get my number. Should I try again?

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Question - (14 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was out at a bar last night to see some bands play and I ended up talking to the sound guy, who was really cute. He was flirting with me heavily and I ended up making out with him. This is so out of the character for me, since I haven't hooked up with a guy at a bar since college. I was also pretty drunk, and I think he was too.

I feel so silly, but now I can't stop thinking about him. I tried to hint at giving him my number before I left, but he just said he would see me next time I came in.

I can imagine a bunch of reasons that he didn't get my number. He could have a girlfriend. He could have just been really drunk and not genuinely interested in me. He also could have been too drunk to get that I was genuinely interested in him.

What do you think I should do? Should I just try to forget about it, or go back to bar next weekend and strike up a conversation? For the record, I feel kind of guilty about drinking too much - I know better than that!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

I'd go back the weekend after next, with a group of friends, and catch his eye and smile but keep talking to your friends and dancing. Only go up to say hi after you've been there for at least an hour. Could he really have been that drunk if he was working?!

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