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writes:Hey on friday i was at a restarunt with my best friends and my boyfriend and his friend. My best friend had to be getting to know one of my boyfriend`s friend and she barely talked to him. [she said she was nervous and so forth, and after the date she cried cause she thought she messed up [the boy had left already] and she almost got me to cry too cause im so soft hearted]well i have 2 problems: 1)My best friend actually had sex in the restarunt bathroom with a boy that usually says horrible things about her to people in his community [thats what i have known and also heard] and she told me his penis did not go in, i am just confused that she stayed in the bathroom 10 mins while i was guarding the door and she always wanted to have sex with the boy, isnt this like impossible for her to stay in the bathroom for so long and she did not actually have sex?2)My second problem is that i think she might hurt my boyfriend`s best friend and the boy seems very sweet and he is the same zodiac sign as me and i usually know how this sign reacts to cheating and also long term relationships. Should I tell the boy what might be coming for him or just wait it out? Maybe she might change cause she told me she hates it when people try to bring her down and say she will hurt the boy. I`ll feel really bad and also guilty if the boy got hurt and this problem affects my current relationship because my bf wanted to tell his best friend!!PLEASE I NEED HELPlove kiwi
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks cls1990
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reader, cls1990  +, writes (14 February 2010):
 If I were you I would tell your friend what's going on, you havnt even done anything wrong yet it's you that's in the middle!
Tell her your boyfriend knows (or has heard or whatever) what she did and wants to tell his friend. Then tell her it is upto him what he tells his friend & your not going to get I the way of that. Tell her you don't want to loose or upset either of them but your boyfriend cares about his friend as much as you do her. Say your having no part in it at all, you can't stop your boyfriend for doing what he feels is the right thing to do but you are giving your friend fair warning & time to sort herself out and tell the guy if she wants.
Then you have done your part, havnt taken sides or done anything wrong
hope it all works out
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