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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and spends the rest of the day doing who knows he says that he is at his guy friends house,then he calls at like 10 pm, asks me what i am doing and then tells me he is coming over and then shows up at around as i said before 2 or 3 in the morning, why is he doing this? i am so confused! And if it was you would you allow that to continue? Reply to this Question
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (3 November 2009):
 HE IS a total jerk any real man that loves and cares for you wouldn't be using you!! And I would have not even gave that jerk a second chance......
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 November 2009):
He's doing it because he's using you. No guy on earth who really loves a woman would treat her this way! He comes over as he wants, uses your bed to sleep in, then lays around and clears off again to see his friends. I'd say that you're really wasting your time with him. And to top it off, you've even given him a second chance. No, I wouldn't let it continue at all. You deserve better than this.
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