New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I'm losing sleep over my lost love! Please help!

Tagged as: Breaking up, Dating, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (3 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

im 16 years old she 16 years old, i love that girl to death but shes in love with someone else, we dated in the past and broke up, i been in several relationships after that but everytime i kiss these girls i close my eyes and see her, i want that girl back but shes in love with someone else, i loose sleep over this girl, what should i do....i never loved a female!

View related questions: broke up

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for all yall help....i moved on today and im trying not to look back

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009):

I fell in love with a boy when I was 15 - we were in a relationship for over five and a half years and then it ended abruptly a few months back.

All I can say to you, is that there is someone walking around out there just waiting to meet you.

Don't waste your time pining over a girl who isn't interested.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009):

This is part of being 16, we all fall in love and fall HARD, at 16 virtually none of the "relationships" last very long and it's all part of the experience. What we learn from these early loves is what we bring to the rest of our lovers later in life.

It's OK to rmember this woman fondly, but you've got to put that memory in the right place and NOT compare future girls to her. If you do this, first you'll be compare an "ideal love" to the flesh and blood girl right in front of you. No woman can live up to that, and odds are good that you're going to miss out on multiple other great and wonderful girls if you keep doing this.

You need to acknowledge that your time with this woman has passed and that you're not getting back together and work to fall in love with your next GF, w/o comparison.

How? All I can tell you is that it takes time. Maybe you need to remeber all the things that you didn't like about her...

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I'm losing sleep over my lost love! Please help!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156504000005953!