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writes:im a little confused by this situation. this girl I work with is dating someone else. we are really good friends. lately she's been acting real different. she's been questioning my past relationships, about my beliefs over cheating and such. after she tells me im a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me. don't get me wrong she is extremely atractive, smart, funny, and all of that. but I would never do anything because her boyfriend. she has started increasingly flirting with me and telling everyone that im her man. for example a new girl was hired on and my friend told me the new girl was talkin to her about how cute I was and such and this girl told the new girl that im taken. im confused by this entire situation. I need some advice of what to do. what is she thinking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): The next time she tells someone that you are taken, let that person know that she's joking. That should send a message without any feelings being hurt too badly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): It sounds like this girl is terribly indecisive. Maybe something is going on with her relationship at present and views you as escapism.
Perhaps she is planning to break up with her boyfriend and in the mean time, doesn't want you to disappear into the arms of another woman?
The best thing for you to do love, is just to ask her.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (3 November 2009):
its always been my impression that a guy filing sexual harrassment can be a sticky situation. my advice? don't ever hang out with this girl alone outside of work. she seems manipulative and if u were alone and tried something and u rejected her. my fear is she may try to claim something as serious as u raping her. I know attraction is a paritable force but ur gonna have to nip this in the butt if u want to look out for urself. keep any contact u have with her out in the open for eye witnesses and don't ever take part in her little flirts
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 November 2009):
Eww, she sounds gross. Sexual harassment anyone? She definitely has some sort of crush on you, and is considering cheating on her boyfriend with you. I agree with gerta on the whole "buttering up" thing. I'd stay away from her for sure. I think you should let her know or give off the vibe at least that you're uncomfortable with her questions...and if she continues you can always file sexual harassment; because that is what she's doing. But I know, you don't want the be the dude that files sexual harassment on some chick at work. So just try to avoid that kind of conversation with her and obviously you can't just be "friends" with her and hopefully she'll get the hint.
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