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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Any ideas how I can give this another go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into our relationship... when I asked him about it he lied to me but I then found out for myself and he admitted it and said he was so scared to tell me coz he ...

How can I "be there" more for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me...

What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you like out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Ok this is a question mainly for the girls because they know about this stuff, but fellas your help will be appreciated too. This is going to be a hard question and I can't wait for your ideas!! What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you ...

Friend or girlfriend? What am I to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, now. We do everything together, I spend his days off with him. He includes me in everything he does with his friends (who are all couples), and his family (immediate and extended). He's not afraid t...

Would you sleep with him and do you you think this whole thing is my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm the girl with the pornstar boyfriend again and I have a little bit of situation. My boyfriend and I had a talk about work at his apartment when I spent the night and he said he does accounting instead of the real answer. He now wants to ...

Should I take him back after the hurt he's caused me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and last year February I stopped going out with my boyfriend whom I had been going out with for a year and a half. We broke up but it was still like we were going out as we were still kissing etc. Then I went on holiday in mid August and w...

I just don't know what to do next or what the next step is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I have always had trust issues from my first serious high school relationship where the girl i dated left me only a month after moving away. We had been together for two years and it was the typical high school sweetheart relationship that last two ...

Should I trust him or is he in over his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey I'm 14 and I have been told that I'm mature for my age I guess I am. A have practicly been taking care of myself and my brother and sister for two years now, and to get to my point, boys my age are stupid so my bf is 18 we know the risks of ...

Dont know what to say to my girlfriends dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Hi my name is ray im 22 and my girlfriend is 16 her name is lisa ok we have been dateing for a year now her mom knows about it but we have to keep it from her dad till her mom calls me and lets me know that i can come talk to her dad but her dad ...

Am I really an evil homewrecker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago now i started talking to this boy who was in my class... we became reali close friends and told each other everything. I helped him get through his break ups and vice verser. About 1 year and a half ago now he called me asking to ...

Should I do something special for him to apologize for being so stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I blew it, and I'd like some advice as to what to do now. My boyfriend is 7 years older than me and has more "history" because of it. Last night, we'd had a bit too much to drink, and I got insecure about something he brought up from ...

Her vagina seems slacker... could she be cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I feel my partner is cheating, because at the end of her period when she has stopped bleeding she seems slack and she makes vaginal noises, also even when she is not on her period. I try to talk to her but I always seem to make a a***e of it.. can ...

Does it matter that I'm 2 grades behind her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - ok theres girl anne and shes a junior whos 16 right now and will be 17 in august, im a freshman whos 14 and will be 15 in may. ive kissed this girl before like a week ago and i cant tell whether she likes me or not. how do i find out if she still ...

I broke up with him twice but can't help feeling I've made a terrible mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 16, almost 17. I live several hours away from my now ex-boyfriend. We met each other through a friend who had moved down from her old town to where I live. We made friends and chatted over the phone every night, and after a few months he took a ...

My b/f seems to be pulling away and I'm not sure what to do about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Any help and advice anyone can give I would really appreciate it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and have been dating for 4 years. I love him very much but lately (as in the past few months) he seems to be pulling away from me. He is ...

Darling or dates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - hi been out with someone had a break as said was too busy as started new job working shifts etc. Seen him when out he was very friendly said he still had my number etc and would be in touch. I never thought he would answer me so i text him. E...

Does this mean its over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - So I am attached to this girl that i met 3 months ago...we have been perfect together for a month now..I used to take her out on her lunch breaks and we used to have alot of fun but no sex yet, she also tells me she feels content with me but the ...

Advice needed! Do I follow my head or my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My brain is telling me to say "goodbye", but my heart is not onboard. I have been seeing my "boyfriend" for 6 months. We had a rocky start. I had a drunken psycho moment. Then we kinda moved past it. We dont see eachother that often. He tells ...

Should I surprise him and give him a BJ while we're out?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so tonight I'm going out to the movies with my boyfriend. He called me late last night at work to tell me he was feeling soooo horny! I thought it was cute. And I didn't let him know, but I wanted him so bad!! We haven't had sex just yet. And ...

He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...

Any suggestions on how to get his grandma to let us sleep together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are goiing to his grandma's house this weekend and we may be taking his little brother. We lived with his grandma for a few months and always slept in separate beds... but the little brother will make it so we are 1 bed short. ...

Is it only words? I don't feel I really matter to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am confused. I was dating a guy for 5 months, we broke up, and got back together a month later and are still together, now. My only issue is that I don't feel like I matter to him. He tells me he loves me, he tells me I'm his world, yet I don't ...

How do I get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have boyfriend who is 2 yr older and lives 80 mi. away. How do i get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us? I have a cousin down there so i could say im visiting him(he introduced us actually)but that will get old quickly. ...

I am always getting sweat patches under my arms when I go out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - This question is a weird one... i am always getting sweat patches under my arms when i go out etc and i totally hate them. they make me so paranoid and feel uncomfortable. It doesnt smell at all - infact it smells of my deodarant but i just cant ...

He is a known as a player so I worry he is just after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi there, im a bit confused lately. i've been seeing this guy (paul) now for 1 and 1/2 weeks. we've known eachother for 3 years and he has liked me for a while but i had a boyfriend (jack). i finished with jack and me and paul started texting and ...

He wants a "settled adult relationship" what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok so im 17, ive been going out with a guy who is 20 now for bout 2 and a half months, hes not the most outgoing of people and he is a bit shy, we havent had sex yet (neither of us are virgins) but nows hes talking about he wants a settled adult ...

Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I ...

She asked me out as friends but I like her, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Right. I am in my holiday, and i have really gotten to know and like this girl in my school. We talk frequently over MSN and txt. And she said if she wanted to meet up. I said i wouldnt be sure if i was free. So i said could re-arrange another time. ...

I am confused, does he still want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I am so very confused. I thought things were over with a guy, I had texted him saying "I guess your over me, thanks for letting me know. see you around" after I hadn't heard from him in over a week then he responded "I'm sorry, you're so fun. ...

How can I re-fuel his interest in me without messing up the friendship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi there everyone! So i've been doing the agony aunt thing and enjoying it, but it seems this Miss. Agony needs help :-) I'd appreciate your thoughts, everyone!! So there's this guy i'm very close to. We're really good friends. I've had ...

Why did he text me so much if he didn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even thoug...

He acted as if he liked me, now all of a sudden he's being cold, I wonder why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - There is a guy I know that had a crush on me back when we were kids... we've crossed paths now and again throughout our lives, and as it turns out, i am now close to his mother, so i see him more frequently. lately he's been saying things like "I ...

Will he ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - me an my bf are on our 8 months,im 14 he's 15 we were the best couple ever we did everything together,my friends loved him,i was so happy to have him,,he was so important to me,, at the end of our 4 months wen summer ended,we started schools,he ...

Is this verbal abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am wondering whether being called a whimp by a guy for not doing what he wants me to do and saying that I asked a stupid question would be classified as verbal abuse, I have a history of getting involved with abusive men....

I don't like him like he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship that happened very fast. I had just met the guy 3 days before he asked me out. We've been going out for a week and 5 days and he's become very affectionate in public. I don't feel right when Im with him I feel uncomfortable and ...

Should I confront her and ask if the V-Day card was from her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Thing recently haven't been good family problems and one main reason a girl. I am the kind of guy that doesn't talk about anything to anyone but recently I have become close in a straight way to a guy we talk about everything and this girl. H...

Should I tell him I felt ignored by him even though we are not dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - There's this guy who is very attracted to me and he I know he likes me at least he likes to flirt and all. He left for vacation and came back yesterday. He called me as soon as he arrived to the airport. I said I'm going to pick you up, I'm with...

She does not enjoy sex any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I am 30 years old and she is 28. We met 2 years ago and she was my first time. Always valued the fact of being virgin until I was going to meet the right one. In the last months her sex drive dropped and we basically are having sex not more then ...

How can I become a sexual SASHA FIERCE with my first real boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am trying to prepare myself for havign a REAL sexual encounter with this man I love, I am 19 and he is 28! I love him a lot, and I think i am ready to have sex with him. but I'm sooooo scared! I don't know anything about sex, and I want him to ...

Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard wo...

Help! My mum caught us in the act and now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were watching a film in my room and we were laying on my bed we started kissing and then he started to finger me. My mum walked in and now she wont talk to me. I don't know what do! Please help. ...

I want a relationship based on love and not pleasure. How can I let her know that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Okay I met this girl I really like 3 months ago and we started dating a month ago but she has a very awful past.. Her ex boyfriende was horrible with her and he used to beat her up and finally they had a kid together. The last time I saw her was 3 ...

He's going into the marines, should I end it now or wait till he leaves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a realtionship that's not that serious yet, but he is going to the marines in a few months and we aren't going to continue this. So should I just end it now, or contiue with him until he leaves, and break up with him then?...

I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he says he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I just made 6 months. We've been through more then the average couple would go through in this time period. I love him with all my heart. I don't have to think about it I just know. I know he loves me but I don't think he loves ...

My family has disowned me for no reason... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have 2 children together. I have never really been close to my mum but my nan and grandad have always been like a mum and dad to me. I live fairly close to my ...

I don't want to chase him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I hooked up up with a guy about two weeks ago, on a friday night. I ran into him at the bar and went home with him. I ended up texting him on saturday night and we ended up doing it all over again (we did not have sex, just fooled around). He was in ...