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Dating: Help and advice

My sex drive is going through the roof! Why???

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24 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 24 year old female. I think that my sex drive is too high. I think about it all the time, in the car, at work, the grocery store, everywhere!!! I'm in a great relationship, but my boyfriend's drive is nowhere near mine. I take care of ...

How do I get over the father of my daughter?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 months ago, we noticed it wasn't working out. We also have an 8 month old daughter together. I thought it would be easy to get over him but it's not. It hurts me to even think about letting him go and I ...

When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right? By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!...

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me...

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24 February 2009 (F) - I always have dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I do not see any signs that he is and I don't think he is but what do you think this means... about once or twice a month... I have dreams that he is with someone else....

Curiosity killed the cat???

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24 February 2009 (M) - Hi my dilemma is from the fact that I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. However there is a catch to it! As my girlfriend was checking her mail and forgot to sign out, I being nosy and completely in the wrong decided to read some of her emails. ...

I keep falling for unavailable women!

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24 February 2009 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male and I have a problem. I keep falling for unavailable women. Generally, I'll fancy a girl. Then, if I learn that she has a boyfriend, I'll fancy her more. But if it turns out she's single, then I grow frustrated and less ...

I'm sooo totally paranoid!!!

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24 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for two months but we we're "getting together" several months before we did. He's a lovely guy and totally different to all the idiots i've been out with! I know people say that a lot and get let down but I truly be...

Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our ...

He's so friendly with this other girl and I'm so jealous about it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know how to stop being jealous? My boyfriend who I've been with for a year now keeps flirting with other girls especially this one girl who says that her and him are best friends and tell each other everything and that she knows him more ...

Girlfriend USED to dance, how do I not let it bother me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am dating a girl I've known for close to 8 years. We have now been dating for about 4 months. I found out years ago that she danced, not stripped but danced. Very provocative clothing, g-string, bra type of stuff but never took anything off. B...

Her friends at Uni are all guys.

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24 February 2009 (M) - I have a gf we've been together for 3 years and it's been some real origional love story, we love each other to death she's soo caring all she wants is to make me happy, but since she finished high school(last year), and I have one more year to ...

Shall I tell him? Or leave it?

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24 February 2009 (F) - ok this is one big long hard story and i need help!!! I spend a lot of time with my cousin sarah and i practically have been living with her. She has been on/off with this lad phil for 5 years. He has a younger borther jack who i really like and ...

Intimacy issue

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24 February 2009 (F) - I have an intimacy issue and dont know hoe to solve it. Im 17 and never done anything with a guy before and when ever someone makes a move i reject it automatically even if i like them :S It is really starting to get to me and i just dont know what ...

Is this healthy in a relationship

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24 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for some time, however, recently i have noticed that when i get down, even if its just a little, he gets annoyed with me, as if im being purposely moody with him, when, in truth, im just feeling a little down. ...

Did I contact him too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I met a man on Saturday night in a nightclub who was married but separated and had two children.He seemed really keen on me.He bought me a drink,he asked me what i wanted out of life, we swapped numbers,we danced with each other all night,when his ...

Are all men forgetful? Or do they just not care?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Are all men forgetful or do they just don't care?!? Ok, today I've been with my bf for 1 month!! And many more to come!!! He hasn't said anything. Should I mention it? Or is that really not an important date for a guy?...

I'm worried about what people think about the age difference

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24 February 2009 (M) - Im 15 nearly 16, i am going out with a girl 2 and a half years younger than me (13 nw). i really like her and think that the relationship may go somewhere. I do not mind the age difference and neither does she but when my friends found out they were ...

My boyfriend chats to my friends on MSN and has invited them to hang out with us. How do I communicate with them more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Heya, I was just wondering if any of you could give me some advice. Background info: I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 4 months (and we are both 16). After he had met my friends he added them on msn, etc and chats to them quite a lot...

Online dating for 6 months, I will see him in person soon but I'm scared of losing him!

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24 February 2009 (F) - mkkay here goes ive been dating this guy over the internet. we been dating for 6 months now! he is going to come see me soon well so he says! but anyway i love him so much i beleive i have totally fallen for him but im a little scared, he is my ...

No label to my status?

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24 February 2009 (F) - i've been seeing this guy that i've liked for 3 years for the past six weeks, and when we first kissed i asked where we would go from there and he said we should just go with the flow! and evertime i say i'm going to say something to him as to where ...

Is it possible to flirt without teasing? How?

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24 February 2009 (M) - I've noticed a lot of guys flirt by teasing...is it possible to flirt without teasing? I never like to make fun of people in any way shape or form because I'm quite big on respect...and to me teasing isn't really showing respect (even if it's just ...

I feel like my sex drive is diminishing, I don't understand why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two years. I'm totally in love with her and fancy her like mad. But, recently, when it comes to sex I get erect during, kissing, foreplay, oral sex etc but when it comes to putting the condom on, I lose my erection ...

She demands so much of my time...

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24 February 2009 (M) - I am a 32 year old male. Have been in relationship with a woman for 15 months now. It is going well on many fronts, but some we have had problems. I have problems with erections, althoguh it seems psychological. We are working on this, and she is ...

Please someone tell me am I going bonkers and reading far too much into this or is she really sniffing round him cos she fancies him...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know where to begin! I had been with my partner for 12 years. We fell out and were both too stubborn to make up. We sold out house and went our seperate ways. Before this I tried to reconcile but he didnt want to know. He had started going ...

Has anyone any experience with an older boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Is there anyone out there who has had experience with older boyfriend? I am seriously struggling to cope with his ways which he won't comprimise... Thanks...

Are they just being friendly? Or could there be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I work as a part time cashier in a little shop. There's a new guy that works there and a few other guys I have served who seem rather nice. They are all similar ages to me and most of the time we 'meet', we have a good chat (even though it's short)! ...

For those with experience in relationships... how can I make this last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hey well cutting it short. This guy asked me out. He's 19 and lives in london. I'm 18 live in Wolverhampton. He will be my first boyfriend - I have "seen" guys before but they were always short things because they wasn't really worth it. But he is ...

I love 2 men and I'm exhausted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Help! I'm ashamed to ask for help on this topic, but I'm in desperate need for some advise. I've dated 2 men off and on for a few years now and I need to decide who I should be with. Both men are very good to me. They love me so much and they would ...

Is she going to leave me?

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24 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for 1 month shes 16 and Im 19. I love her and I can see us spending a long time togehter but Im afraid that she is going to leave me someday to be curious. She is young and I am her first real boyfriend. And Im ...

I really want this girl but I can't see anything coming of it

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24 February 2009 (M) - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's ...

It feels like we're moving too fast, but it feels natural. Should I slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I met a guy last year. I wasn't really interested in him. But he continued to pursue me. Finally I gave him a chance. But after a week or two I called it quits for no reason. A month down the line, I decide to call him. Of course he cursed me out. ...

How do I tell if he's interested in me when he works so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I'm really into this guy but he's difficult to read. We had an amazing connection but he's always so busy with work (12 hour days) that I'm not sure if he has the same interest in me. How do I tell? ...

His ex was the reason we broke up, but can we work this out without her in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Here's my story. My boyfriend left me about a week ago and I'm devastated. We broke up because of his ex. While we were dating, he'd constantly talk to her and she'd always convince him to leave me. She hates me, for reasons I have no idea why. ...

He's always flirting with other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems to constantly be flirting other women, in particular with one of his very close friends (who is a girl and has a boyfriend). I also think he may have dated her a few years ago (though I have never asked him about it). The other ...

Me first or him first?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Should I make the first move or should my bf?...

Can someone translate what he's trying to tell me?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone.have a few issues and need some advise.input from everyone will be great, but I definitely need some male input in my crazy life. here it goes ive been with this guy for about 7 months sorta and before we began this crazy thing i ...

The best lap dance ever!!!

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24 February 2009 (F) - Help! I'm trying to surprise my bf with a lap dance. How can I make sure it's the best ever?!? ...

My boyfriend insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter...

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24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter. Am I crazy? I have three kids of my own ages 10, 9, and 5. My girls adore him ages 9 and 5. My 10 year old son is neutral my boyfriend does nothing with him. On t...

My girlfriend's best friend...

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24 February 2009 (M) - All right so here's the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I truly love her. But for some reason lately I've been starting to enjoy the company of her best friend. Which she is not even close to being as hot as my girlfriend. Her ...

He still has the woman who was once his wife still living with him!

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24 February 2009 (M) - Okay! SO the last time I needed advice, it was about my boyfriend and how I thought he was cheating on me. Well now that I've moved on from that, I've been feeling a little better. A few days ago I came across somebody else, but he's a pastor. We ...

My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.

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24 February 2009 (F) - Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...

My girlfriend is so flirtatious! How can I calm her down a bit?

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24 February 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm an 19 year old guy and i have a problem with my girlfriend. She is 19 too and I've found that in the last 6 months she has been becoming much more flirtatious with other men, particularly older men. She gets a lot of attention when w...