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Dating: Help and advice

Why do most guys act this way after sex?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Do all guys, or most guys act this way the day after sex? I've noticed this with the past (2) relationships. We have an amazing time, sex and all. Then the next day it's like short answers, small talk, a bit distant, and expects for the girl to be ...

My friends are all getting boyfriends

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9 February 2009 (F) - please help. I know you cant actually comfort me that much as the fact I have are bleak..but I just need to tell someone, anyone.. I feel so trapped at the moment. My friends are all getting boyfriends..or already have bfs and are all so happy...

I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!

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9 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to ...

I don't want to like him and then he ditches me!

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9 February 2009 (F) - ok so ive met this guy..recently ive had some bad relationships that have ended up goin nowhere and leaving me hurt...so i wanted opinions on this one before i get too involved. ive known this new guy for a couple of years but nothing ever hap...

Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back? Personally, i'm not sure... it sometimes seems like an obvious NO... but other times, when i look back at people i've "loved" (when it wasn't reciprocated) i think that it ...

If my boyfriend keeps acting clingy all the time I will end up doing it because it annoys me.

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9 February 2009 (F) - I was clinically depressed last year and had to see a counsellor for a couple of months. I couldn't function in college , lost interest in my work and couldn't sleep. I was hoping for a better year, recovered new bf and stuff felt happier....

Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?

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9 February 2009 (F) - So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and ...

Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?

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9 February 2009 (M) - Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for ...

If a guy annoys you in class does it mean he likes you?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Okay so i'm in love with my teacher, but on the otherhand I can't stop flirting with this guy in my class. Well i think hes flirting i can't tell because my mind wanders and i always think about this teacher i'm in love with. I just wondered if...

I don't know how to pursue him!

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9 February 2009 (F) - okay so i really really like this boy that goes to my school but he is in the year above me, and i have a pretty good feeling he doesnt like me at all! he looks at me with a strange expression most of the time; he is friends with people in m...

Is "I'm falling for you" close to "I love you"?

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9 February 2009 (F) - My bf said, "I think I'm falling for you." Is that getting close to saying 'I love you.'?? ...

I can't keep stringing them along, so who should I go for?

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9 February 2009 (F) - hi, i need help, basically there is two lads i like, they are both really sweet, caring, and seem like really decent lads, one is 19 , really nice looking and really hot and he is really caring and knows how to show affection, hes at college a...

Am I doomed to be one of those creepy cat ladies?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. My really good friend doesn't talk to me anymore. I didn't do anything wrong. I had a huge thing for him and he might've liked me too, but I never pursued anything. I don't think he even knew. I feel dumb for ...

He'll be leaving the company soon--should I say goodbye? Or leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm having a real problem at work at the moment. I've been working at this company for nearly 5 years. A couple of years ago a new guy joined and he had a wife and two daughters. To cut a long story short I grew closer to this guy and ...

If he wanted to date me, he would've asked so does he just want sex?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what this guy at work wants. When we see each other we chat a lot and he kinda looks at me lovingly but he never asks me out he does however make remarks like we should get a room together, we have known each other for about a year and ...

Troubled by feelings for a younger girl and my older teacher...

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9 February 2009 (F) - Basically, Theres a girl a couple of years younger than me who likes me. She is openly gay, everyone knows she likes me. I, on the other hand am a coward, I see the way they shun her and I just don't want that to happen to me. She's in isolation ...

Should I move in with him and his family? Or stay on my own?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I posted on here recently about an internet dating experience and got some great advice, so I thought I'd look on here again for some more advice. I met a guy on the internet at the start of December. We started talking via MSN and webcam strai...

My family loves my BF but my friends don't!

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9 February 2009 (F) - What can a girl do if your friends doesnt like your boyfriend, but your parents and sisters and brother like him and they dont know him like i know him. it make me so sad. i dont know what to do.....

I am ready for Mr right...? What am I supposed to do??

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hi guys. I will start off with my name is Deborah, I am 20 years old. I have had an active life and I am ready to settle down. I dont think I am unattractive. I dont have much confidence, but I know I dont look horrible. I am 5'9 120 pounds small ...

Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on ...

I have his number so should I make a move and what should I say?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I've been interested in this guy for about 6 months now and I think I may well be falling for him. I always got the impression that he was keen on me, so it wasn't a huge surprise when two of our mutual friends both texted me and said that he wanted ...

How can I get my bf to kiss me without being pushed by our friends?

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9 February 2009 (F) - okay so i have kissed my bf but only when our mates force us to . it isnt natural... we were alone the other day and nobody not even our mates were around. i thought that would be a good moment and to kiss naturally without people forcing u...

Best kind of venues for a first date?

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9 February 2009 (F) - What are some good places to go on you first date with a guy you really like?...

Could this be a beginning?

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9 February 2009 (F) - HEllo: I was in an abusive relationship for 12 years, my weight and self esteem were out of conrol, I have gotten myself finally feeling the best about myself since even before I met that parasitic monster... I had been encountering mar...

He says he likes me so much its degrading..what does that mean?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Long story turned into a short one, i'm with a guy who told me that he likes me so much it has got to a point where it's 'degrading' to him, like he's changed his ways. He emphasised on the 'degrading' part and i know what degrading means but I'm ...

Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend when I miss my old one so much?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend who was absolutely lovely in every way, he was the funniest most caring person I could've ever dreamed of, but after 2 and a half years i ended it because I was finishing uni and wanted to go travelling, see the world meet new ...

Will people think I am just rebounding?

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9 February 2009 (M) - Hey i broke up with my gf for 1 month already she is from the other class in my batch, well now there is this girl in my class that i like and i want to go after her but i am not sure if i should since people might think i am just rebounding what ...

He says I'm a deep thinker and wants to see more of my personality

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9 February 2009 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy i think he might like me too but i don't know. He's rather friendly to most people (smiling, joking, etc.) so it probably isn't anything special that he's nice to me and smiles at me in the hallway...but he told me ...

Will going out with someone else help me forget him?

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9 February 2009 (F) - hey i like this guy called james* hes lovely sweet and every thing i mean we have kissed and stuff before and i want to ask him out i mean tommrow in history thats when isit next to him and chat alot but hes one of my best mates and in are ...

Should I buy her something for V-Day and try to reconnect with her?

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9 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Im a little confused about something. I met this girl last year. She's a cool and fun girl, a lil bit reserved. we dated for 2 months and started liking each other. However, she started confusing me. For instance, I was getting mixed signals ...

I don't want to lose her as a friend by dating her with the possibility of a break up! Please help!!!!!

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9 February 2009 (M) - Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its ...

How do I know if we are just "dating" or in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - How do you know if your someone's "girlfriend" or not? I've been going on dates with this guy since the beginning of January.A few days ago,I went to his house and he made dinner for me(which i thought was VERY sweet) and we watched movies.H...

He invited me for a walk, you think he likes me? What should I do to get with him?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Ok it was me ,my twin,my boyfriend,his brother,his friend and we were hangin out at his brother house and my boyfriend didn't talk to me or anything not one word was said between us and when it was time to go home he got frustrated cause my ...

How can I know if this girl likes me?

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9 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 19 and in college. Ok so I met this girl in one of my classes. I think she's pretty attractive and I think she feels the same way about me because I have caught her looking across the room at me multiple times. She does it repeatedly. One ...

I made a bad choice when I was younger, and now it's affecting my relationship.

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9 February 2009 (F) - When I was 16, I was crazy about this boy in school. For years I dreamed of returning the feelings, and even though we were good friends, I knew he didn't feel the same way... until I had a party and he kissed me. But next thing i know, I ended up ...

Am I attracted to him, or his skin colour?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hi Ok so im 15 and a sophmore in high school and my peoble is a little odd. I'm white and about a year and a half ago realized that I am more attracted to black boys than I am any other race. So when I figured this info out I kinda kept it to my se...

Should I confess to my boyfriend what I've done in the past, or simply be the perfect, loyal girlfriend from now on?

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9 February 2009 (F) - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for four years....ive always done little things that he wouldnt have liked in the past but i didnt think of them as a big deal....this past month i cheated on him....it wasnt really big, i hugged a guy intimately ...

My father issues have made me needy for male company.

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hey, posted on here before about doubts with my boyfriend, lack of wanting sex and affection, too 'busy' having fun to want to see him. The doubts I have been having have worsened since coming to uni, after a rather unpleasant childhood and father i...

Why won't he tell me in the first place that he's just in a bad mood?

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9 February 2009 (F) - ok so my boyfriend has been acting very weird around me whenever i talk to him on the phone or text him. i will try to talk and tell him stories about what happened that day and all he replys with is "yeah" or "ok" and so i think of something else ...

Should I put up with his moods to prove that I care, or just move on?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I met this totally awesome guy a couple weeks ago. We go out or just hang out at his place. We have so much in common it's crazy. I've never believed in the soul mate thing till I met him. Everything was fine. He told me he was falling in love with ...

I just want him to cheat on me so I don't have to make this decision.

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hey. So, been with my boyfriend a few years. Had many, many doubts, dating back to one night when I kissed another man, 9 months into our relationship. He knows about this. I doubt whether I love him sometimes...doubt what I want with him, whilst o...

It feels like he only wants a live-in partner, not a lover.

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9 February 2009 (F) - I am middle aged, 2 years seperated, in a 13 month relationship with a single guy. Nice guy, does not show or express what is going on 'inside'. No talk on future plans but behaves as though we are an item. When questioned, he states, "I spend all ...

I don't want sex (or his affection) anymore...do I still love him?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hello! Little help please! been with bf four years, truly amazing man. Does everything and anything he can for me, to losing weight (yes men can do it!), growing his hair and pretty much anything really. People say im so lucky to be with him. An...

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

We've tried spicing it up, but I'm happier on my own. Any advice?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we have our whole future planned out. sometimes this makes me happy, other times I think about it and get scared. I got wind of him proposing to me once and freaked and split up with ...

I'm beginning to think my only attraction to him was physical.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hi, so i wrote a question on this site yesterday and i still have more questions. So my boyfriend HAS been dropping hints about sex for those of you who read my question and we sat down and talked about sex. But here are the things that set up a red ...

I got back together with my ex because I felt bad, but I'm faking it now. Should I let her down nicely or simply vanish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I told my X that I wouldn't mind trying it one more time.But now I want out. She was crying hysterically and I felt bad. I don't think she has changed enough, there is no newness to being with her agiain. and since our break up I feel like a new ...

She has feelings for me, but I don't feel the same. How do I let her down gently?

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9 February 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, My problem is difficult. I've been working in a crap, deadend job for 7 soul distroying months now (yes i would and have tried to move but there are absolutely no jobs at the moment for obvious reasons). During this time i becam...

Guys: What do you consider sexy? NOT slutty!

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9 February 2009 (F) - I would like to know from the Guys. What is attractive to you. Explain to me an outfit you like to see on a woman that looks attractive not slutty, but sexy..?? More so an outfit that covers her body and is not showing a Butt load of skin either. ...

I have a hard time getting boyfriends because I'm in a wheelchair

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9 February 2009 (F) - ok, i have a hard time getting boyfriends...or even guys to like me becuz im in a wheelchair. i feel really left out alot becuz all my friends are dating. i've tried dating websites, chat rooms..i dunno what to do ne more...and my friends say they ...

I'm 15, she's 18 and she wants to have sex on V-day

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9 February 2009 (M) - Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others. We have been having sexual talks alot lat...

I want to sleep with one and date the other!

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9 February 2009 (F) - Greetings all! I met these two guys through my friend and we all partied together. I was drunk and made out with one of them two nights in a row, although he wanted to do more but I didnt let him. He is an exchange student who will only be here six ...