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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I ask him or just leave it...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but ...

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking....

Should I ask him what was said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. Somebody told him some things and won't tell me what they said.. I don't know what it could be, so I'm not that worried about it but he hasn't talked to me in three days, what should ...

Your comments are appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My b/f has been very much involved in the behaviour management of my 17 year old. My son is very intellient but very rude and argumentative and drives me mad and I have had to get social services and counselling organised for him. I turned to my ...

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should h...

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we ...

Second thoughts? What could I do to improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've been having thought of my own with my long time relationship going on for six years. He says he is happy with me, he gives me all that I could possibly think of emotionally. He's the perfect guy for me. We fit. Yet, it's been a week and I'v...

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in ...

What if he's scared to ask a girl to be his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - how do you know when a guy is ready to ask the girl he likes if she wants to be his girl friend?how do you know if he is scared to ask her?and if he is scared,what should the girl do to give him courage and more confidence?please answer....

She's sent a photo to him but says she loves me but there's things I know that she hasn't told me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. I love her i really do and i understand that females have guy friends and thats cool. She tells me she loves me all the time but i found a letter from one of her friends in prison and he ...

I was just a mess when we snogged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and ...

Is he really gay or is this a sick prank... I'm confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend are on a break and I see him every once in a while because he is in college so I get on my facebook account and he's posted pictures of another reavealing his penis and the album title says my secret life and lover.. so ...

How can I win her trust back? I love her so very much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - At the start of our relationship, I made the horrible decision to talk with some ex's in a way that I shouldn't. It was completely online, and I did not cheat physically in any way. To be frank, I was scared of the relationship I am in. It was ...

I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Theres a guy at school, who i knows likes me but i don't think i like him in that way, but there is a guy that i kinda like and i was talking to my friends about the guy that likes me and the guy that i like was there too and he's friends with the ...

Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers.. I found dozens and dozens of emails in his account going back and forth with hookers on Craigslist.He travels a lot, and most of the cities he was in, he seemed to correspond with the hookers ...

I don't want him to know how inexperienced I am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I lied to the guy that I fancy, we had a quick snog, I wasn't very good (because I have never done it before), he stopped and asked me what was up, I just said that it had been a while and my last boyfriend wasn't very nice to me and it has made me ...

We made out, does this mean he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I told a guy i fancied him, he didn't say the same back but we made out, does that means he fancies me or just thought he would because i like him....

I'm attracted to him, but he snogs me and I'm a rabbit in headlights!

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I really dig my friends younger sister, go for it or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, heres the deal... My friend (who is a girl by the way) has a 16 year old sister and I am 19. I like her and she seems to like me but I've been a bit hesitant so go too far with it because I'm not sure how my my friend (her older sister) would re...

I don't know much about her, how can I know her better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I am in a strange situation and need your expert advice.I am 26, and well settled professionally. However I have never been in a relationship with a girl mainly due to my shy and introverted nature, moreover I always was of the belief that I ...

Are these signs that he's not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Help! I can't stop thinking about this guy. We started seein each other beginning of january. The last time I saw him was 10 days ago. He lives about an hour away. And since then he only texts back after i do first. I've only talked to him on the ...

Am I protecting myself by not getting too emotional with my ex or is this how it is when two people split and get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - My girlfreind split with me last year out of the blue. We were so in love with each other that when she left, both of us were heartbroke. We carried on texting each other for comfort. Then after a few months we started going out at nights just a...

Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends ...

How do I get a girl I like to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - i like this girl can some one give me advice on how to get her to like me? i dont know how to approach her or even have the guts to ask her out im a virgin and have never gone out with a girl before or even kissed one, im such a loser:( everytime ...

Found out that my ex cheated on me, and I feel guilty and have trust issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - i just found out my ex (broke up with me less than a week ago) cheated on me. i'm trying to deal with things in the best way possible. i'm not doing psycho ex stuff, or trying not to. i'm letting out steam by talking to my friends. i constantly tell ...

Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch *Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out...

Should I wait and see what his intentions are or should I get out before I really fall in love with him and lose him and his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and everything is going great but, he says he does not want a girlfriend. He treats me like his girlfriend we go out on the weekends and stay at each others houses overnight and sometimes for the ...

She's the one. How can I keep her if she's not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - hello I'm dating this girl almost 2 month now, before anything happened she had boyfriend for 2 years and they broke up 6 month ago. we got closer and right at the time when i asked her out her ex boyfriend come's up from no where and i think sh...

My g/f's grandmother died..is she taking it out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Yesterday night my girlfriends grandmother died. I want to be there for her but she's really not letting me. She tried to avoid me today... But she ended up talking to me. Overall she's been very mean to me... I don't bring up her grandmother ...

Stuck between a rock and a hardplace

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Okay, to start it off.. .I will begin from the start. I met this girl 8months ago, we progressed and we got to know literally everything about each other. We talk about everything, we see eachother at school 5 days a week, and hang out around t...

Are women put off by skinny men?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...

Do I break up with my g/f and see the new girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I have a fairly common question, but would like to know the answer for my specific question. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. I have been attracted to her for 4 years and we were friends during that time as well. We both left for coll...

How do I tell him without sounding like I want to be taken out all the time and not have to pay?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy a little over a month now. We see each other on weekends. Every now and then he says, 'so where are you taking me?' I drive. Then he said, 'so you're inviting me.' Meaning I'm paying! I only paid twice for d...