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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why ...

He gave me 2 STI's and I'm STILL with him!

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21 February 2009 (F - Me an my partner have been together for a year now and it has to be the best relationship I have had. He's loving, caring, funny, everything I could ever wish for. Then a few months in the relationship we broke up for 2 weeks over someone ringing ...

Still in love with my ex, is she also thinking of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M - im still in love with my ex i don't know if she knows it, she saw me after 6 months i was driving through a bus station we only looked for a couple seconds ..and the same day she texted me on facebook to say hi is she still thinkig off me? i ...

Will he still like me? Some advice? Please answer.

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21 February 2009 (F - so,i like this guy very much and don't want to loose him.he liked me for 1 year and 4 months.yesterday,when we finished school,i and my friend were waiting for another girl to come.as time was passing,i saw him and his best friend heading out of the ...

Lesbian verses Penis

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21 February 2009 (F - I've been attached to women for as long as I can remember. The past 4 years I've only been dating women and can only picture myself with a woman... but the only way I get off is to think about penis or use a dildo! My current girlfriend of over a ...

Stickler for Manners!

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21 February 2009 (F - My girlfriend is constantly burping, farting, coughing and half the time in my FACE! I was raised with manners and I find this disgusting and a total turn off. We barely have sex any more because I'm just not in the mood.. and instead of talking ...

Boyfriend nightmares

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21 February 2009 (F - Hi I have a problem - I have a long term boyfriend who used to treat me really badly and he used to make me do things I didn't want to do - and this has affected our relationship, as I don't feel like I can ask him for anything or approach him for ...

I am willing to do anything to make the relationship with the man that I love work.

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21 February 2009 (F - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 and a half years. Over those two and a half years, I have been a less than perfect girlfriend and have lied to him many times over small and large things and have kept ...

Is it possible I could get pregnant if only on the pill for four days?

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21 February 2009 (F - Hi, I'm really worried, I've just started having unprotected sex with my boyfriend but don't worry, we haven't been stupid and I'm on the pill... but the first time we did I was only on the pill for four days! We looked it up but it said there was ...

Do I actually have a chance this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M - A couple of years ago i fell in love with this girl- i fell so deep it was unreal. When i went to her house we would always have fun and have a laugh but we used to kiss a lot... and she knew how i felt but she would not go out with me. Recently i ...

Our personalities are so different and we are now broken up but I still love him

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21 February 2009 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year and a halve and we have always argued as have our personalities. I met him when i wasn't very confident but a few years later i developed my confidence which led to me actually asking him out. I had ...

How long should we wait before taking the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F - Hey, I know this seems silly but I've been best friends with this guy for 13 years and we've started going out now. We have trust and respect for each other, we're not afraid to tell each other what we want and we have a good balance between ...

Can anyone understand why my b/f makes such loud strange noises?

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21 February 2009 (F - I have tried to understand and am at a loss. Please help me if you can add any insight. My boyfriend is a wonderful person and seems very loving and compassionate. But... Sometimes he scares me. He will vocalize very loud at strange times. Such as ...

How do I admit that I love her?

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21 February 2009 (M - hi need help with a girl i like, i meen i can hook up other people but i am to nervise to tell her that i love her, and all i have told her that i like her and i don't think she know's that i truely love her.how do i tell her?????????? ...

How do I let a guy know I like him?

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21 February 2009 (F - How do I let a guy know I like him? What do I do?...

Should I just let this go wherever it goes, or guard my heart from being hurt?

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21 February 2009 (F - Im having an issue with this man ive been seeing.We first started talking in December.He is very sweet,wonderful personality,a getleman...all great things.But,we are not a couple at this time.And we got on the topic,and my general understanding is ...

I need ideas for conversation with this guy, help?

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21 February 2009 (F - I teelin to these dude n we don't have mch 2 talk bout, so theres always this slight silences. So what do we talk bout. I need ideals or subjects bad!!!!!!!!!!!! Please help me...

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

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21 February 2009 (F - i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...

How do I get my friend to flirt with me?

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21 February 2009 (F - umm...i wanna get horny with my friend?wat should i do to get them flirt back or get horny back with me...

How can you be friends with benefits, but not be in a serious relationship?

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21 February 2009 (F - umm..how can u get ur friend be friends with benefits with u.with out doing a serious relationship like going slow.and flirt with them...

He wants to travel, I don't want him to, what do I do?

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21 February 2009 (F - Hi, I NEED HELP... I've been with my boyfriends for a while now, and I love him to death there's absolutely no one I could imagine spending my life with. He's my best friend, and we share these same feelings. My boyfriend and I have experienced s...

Should I have gotten back together with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M - I know my dribble must be annoying by now. I called our relationship off today based on what I found last night, I put that she grabbed a guys grion behind us because she said she wasnt that type of girl and was drunk at the time, though the pict...

I feel I'm invisible because guys don't notice me

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21 February 2009 (? - i am the type of person who would only be considered a friend or an acquaintance. i sometimes feel that i'm invisible because guys hardly ever notice me. i also have a hard time feeling comfortable around guys because i have always had trust issues ...

He looks a lot older than me and my family is overprotective, help!

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21 February 2009 (F - i have a boyfriend that i really like, and that i really want to keep seeing, he cares about me and my opinion, but my dad and older over protective brother have seen him and think he looks alot older than me, but ive told them that his 16 years old ...

How do I talk to him about this without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F - I have been friends with a guy for over a year, we kissed last year, and we did not get together because he was dating someone else (a mutual friend). They broke up 6 months ago. We had sex last week, but I always really liked him. How do I talk to ...

My GF wants to go to the prom, but I don't... what's a good alternative?

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21 February 2009 (M - i am a senior dating a sophmore. prom is coming up and she seems interested in going but i really don't want to. i've been to a few dances and just didn't like it at all. so i would rather offer up an alternative. how do you think she'll take it and ...

Is my mind messing with my love matters?

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21 February 2009 (M - Well its me again. Since I was like 12 years old my mother started talking to me about love and other things.Well everything that she told me about and what other people would tell me about made my minds growth speed a'lot,well now im fifteen Ive ...

He acts like I'm nothing, like I'm not there.

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21 February 2009 (F - What do I tell my boyfriend? He treats me like I'm his trophy. He ignores me all the time and would rather have me at his side when he wants to compare me with his friends girlfriends. I used to like him but I don't any more. He acts like I'm not ...

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