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Dating: Help and advice

How can I learn to be less clingy???

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17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are kind of broken up, but at the same time we're not. He said I'm too clingy! What can I do so I won't be so clingy because I want to get back with him really bad and I want to fix this! Please help...

15 and wanting a baby!

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17 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...

What can I do to forget about this angry violent man?

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17 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years.. been thru violent abuse and mentally.. he's going to anger management but if that's so why is he still threatening me by saying that if he ever catches me cheating he's going to twist my neck.. ...

Been seeing him for 11 years and just found out he got married 2 years ago... NOT TO ME!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for eleven years and found out last year that my boyfriend is married two years ago and was stilling with me. When I confronted him he denied it. I did not stop until he could not deny any more but he is still seeing ...

What is a relationship supposed to feel like after the honeymoon period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Some questions about marriage... My fella and I just finally got engaged after 3.5 years... hooray! Now come the barrage of questions that I keep asking myself - I think I'm an overthinker - but I figured I'd throw my questions to the Cupid and se...

Should I leave my controlling bf or try again with my ex who is very similar to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - The reason I'm confused is that my present boyfriend is a bit close minded and strict sometimes because he doesnt like to give me my space. he would like to spend all the time with me doing things his way. I'm the type of girl that likes to go ...

I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a gu...

Do men call to message parlours for a verbal thrill?

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17 February 2009 (F) - Do men ever just call on "questionable" independent massage parlors for a verbal thrill? I am dating someone who makes frequent calls to these places from raunchy Backpage websites, but says he never actually goes to them. Sometimes the "masseuse" ...

I find her attractive but I'm the shy type...

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17 February 2009 (M) - So here's a question that is probably asked in different ways, countless times on here. There is a girl in my environmental studies class who I find attractive. We haven't talked to each other, and I'm not really sure if she thinks anything of me or ...

She's "talking" to other guys while we are together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and 7 months now. She's left me about 7 times to date other guys, but for some reason I always took her back. Now I'm in another situation. I looked through her phone I know it's wrong but I wanted ...

I make things miserable for him and he still loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Valentines day past, and he didn't get me anything again. I don't know what's wrong with me but it hurts and I told him before and he said he didn't know how to love me but he says he loves me, and wants to marry me, but that I have to stop getting ...

STD's... but who from???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - When I was 21 I lost my virginity to a 23 year old and he gave chlamydia and gonorrhea and I told him that I had them so he went and got checked and it came back that he didn't have anything but he is the only one I have had sex with so I don't see ...

Any tips about snogging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice regarding snogging; I have never been that good at it; does anyone have any good tips....

I have so many complexes!

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17 February 2009 (F) - hello i have a question any guy i liked rejects me and i don,t know how to meet a guy who i like who won,t rejected me.becasue it always happens.i am overweight ,shy,quite ,short,fat face ,tomboy like,and i am stressed living at home and i can,t ...

A guy would be nice to have around now but... am I doing something wrong?

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17 February 2009 (F) - I am 40, have been divorced for 18 months now. During this time, I have managed to finish my MSc, get a good job, and get my household in order. I feel I have done pretty well for myself and I am fairly happy with my life at the moment. I have a ...

We don't have anything to talk about!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any....

At what point did I turn into a monster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I have really, really screwed up. For the past 3 months I have been tail spinning into a depression because of a job loss, money problems, and some unsettling medical news. I used to be a down to earth, level headed 31 year old guy that could get ...

Do I forget about this incident and hope its a one time thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - ok been on a date with this lad and it went really well we went for a walk and a long chat, i then invited him to my friends house as a few of us were meeting up he turned up drunk and he had driven as well he also smokes which kinda puts me off, ...

She loves me but she's in another relationship

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17 February 2009 (M) - There is this girl am going out with (its new) and I will need your advice always, because I want to keep this relationship. We met some months ago, and since then we've been (just) friends, but I asked her out (woo her)approximatel...

I don't want to be a turn off! Shave or no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - this is for all the guys out there. do u prefer it wen a girl shaves down there or do u like the hair? neva had sex before and i guess i'd neva really thot of shaving till today. my b/f only commented once about it but he doesnt seem to really mind. ...

How can I show her how I really feel about her?

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17 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Im in a relationship i love the girl and she loves me.she told me like a night ago that i can talk the talk but i still got to learn how to walk the walk. what does she mean by i need to learn to walk the walk?? She also told me that is ...

Threesome troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a very strange situation - my boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for the past year and a half. We are a highly passionate couple and like to explore new things. He been seeing this girl for a few months now, I've met her a ...

If she says she loves me then why doesn't she find me attractive or want any physical contact any more..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - My g/f and I have only been together for 3 months but already our sex life is non-existent. When we first met we were rampant and spent entire weekends in bed having plenty of great sex and spending hours cuddling but all of a sudden she has beco...

What makes a boy want you even more then he already does?

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17 February 2009 (F) - what makes a boy want you even more then he alredy does? before me and my boyfriend were dating he chased after me and i played hard to get ... he chased after me and showed me how muchh he wanted me.... now we are together and he feels like he has ...

Sleeping with a first date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I went on a date with an incredable guy and we had amazing chemistry, the only trouble is that chemistry also led to us sleeping together. He admitted it had been a while for him (as it had been for myself) and that he didn't think any less of me ...

I have a hard time with girls with rejection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - hi. im at uni, havin a good time with boy and girl mates but when it come to girls i "like" i find itn hard. This is because i am proper self concious even though i am told i am pretty good lookin and have a good personality i find it hard admitting ...

My girlfriend cheated on me, should I take her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Dear friends, I know this is long but please be patient and I thank you for whoever reads my problems and help me out. I am very confused. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. ONE: recently, my girlfriend only just told me...

Valentines day, how would you take it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am with my boyfriend for four years and two days before valentines day my 9 month old granddaughter (special needs) suffered a gran mol seizure. She was rushed to the hospital and released on valentines day. During this time I neglected to pick ...

My girlfriend has a history of cheating

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17 February 2009 (M) - She tells me she loves me. She swears she's not lying. I know some of her ex-boyfriends, they say she said the same thing to them. She has cheated on every boyfriend she has ever had. (She told me herself.) Every night I think about how she wo...

How to rebuild trust in our relationship?

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17 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have children. recently he cheated on me with a girl he works with who is about 8 yrs younger then him. this is not in his nature-he's never been the type to do anything like this. well she ...

Does he want sex or a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - i really need advice! does he just want sex? or a relationship? i have been seeing a guy for about 4weeks. im 19 and he is 26. and we live on the same street so i often pop round his in the evening and chill. i really, really like him. and he says...

Stuck between two men what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I fancy 2 best friends what do I do? (All involved are 19/20 years old) I've been hanging around with this one lad for a while now but recently been getting to know him proper and he's such a lovely lad, although the process of getting ...

How do I tell my dad?

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17 February 2009 (F) - Hi, There's this guy that I've recently started having feelings for. I've known him for a few years, but we've started talking more than we used to. I think he might like me too. I see him most days and we flirt with each other a lot, and for the...

Should I suggest moving in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Should I suggest moving in together? I have been dating a very kind dependable guy for about a year. He and I get along very well. I love him but am not in love with him yet. I have no desire to marry him until I am sure that he is the one an...

I'm worried that she might not open up much any more because she's trying to find this new found strength within her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Okay I need some help for this somewhat complicated issue. The condensed version of this is that I my girlfriend and I got in a fight and I told her I needed to take some time to think about things and clear my head because of something she did (she ...

What to do about his porn habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am currently engaged and I am about 7 months into this relationship. I also am pregnant, but even that doesn't mess with the way I feel about the "porn" issue. I was raised in the country and never believed in looking at another person, whether it ...

My current girlfriend just wants to be friends now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship with my gf for almost 3 years. After I had met my current for the first time, my ex wrote me and told me she still loved me and wanted to be with me. I had never had closure with her, and told her that I didn't ...

Boyfriend is acting funny

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend did something Friday night that found inappropriate and he told me I was just being jealous.... like he says a lot lately.... he doesn't want apologies. He did make me dinner for Vday and chocolates but said he was just being nice for ...