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Dating: Help and advice

I'm tired of being tired.

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8 February 2009 (F) - Please help me, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year... we live together too.. everything has been great till 3 weeks ago.. we don't talk any more we don't kiss, and sex is like once a week and when we do have sex there is no foreplay... ...

Update: She wants to see what else is out there after 5 years.

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, so here is an update on my situation. The girl that I've been with for almost 5 years wants to see what else is out there. It has been an amazing relationship. We are our first everything and it means a lot to me, and I used to think ...

I do not want to just throw it all away for something he has pretended and lied to me about

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8 February 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. I met this wonderful guy on the internet in January of 2008. I was getting ready to move to Europe and he was from the UK. We were just friends and took time to get to know each other to see if things would work out that way ...

How can I handle him with a new GF?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Hope i can get some advice. Me and my boyfriend split up new years day after 3 years together... i am getting out there and keeping busy. And feel like im not too bad in dealing with things. Theres just one thing bothering me...i k...

Problems with my boyfriend's family

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8 February 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is the same age. He is Sikh and is family can't find out about me. This means that I cannot go to his house or go to any social events, ie weddings or parties, in case someone he ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long then gets all sleepy...

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8 February 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he can't last for longer than about 15-20 minutes before he comes. And then that's that. He apparently has such a long refractory period that having sex again isn't worth it and doesn't feel as good - until the ...

Is it wrong to like younger guys?

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8 February 2009 (F) - is it wrong to like a younger guy and i am 2 yaers older.he was born in 1982 and i was born in 1980. is it wrong to like a younger guy.i like younger guys but i don,t mean to ? is it wrong .do younger guys like older girls? can you help m...

Can I ask a girl out through facebook?

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8 February 2009 (M) - Its kinda pole question for girls. Can i am very shy boy of 19. I love someone who is 15.she is my first love. Can i ask her out through facebook? I mean would girls find it weird to be asked out through fb mail? Um too shy to face her or call ...

Set up on a date and don't want to go!

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8 February 2009 (F) - My friend is having people round next weekend but it's going to be her, her boyfriend, another couple, this guy and me. I'm not into this guy at all and I feel like it's really cringey and 'set-up' so I don't want to go, but she knew when she asked ...

Flirting advice needed!

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8 February 2009 (M) - Ok heres the deal i came out of a long term relationship back in september last year. Im finding it really hard to flirt again, im not sure what to say, ask or do... Any advice on flirting would be a great help, iv met this girl got her number a...

Facebook random contact I want to talk to him but unsure what to say?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I've got random contacts on facebook that i'm not really friends with and only vaguely know, there's a guy that i find quite attractive who's one of these, i would like to start talking to this guy but don't really know what to say, any ideas? ...

He has a g/f but I want him to know my feelings

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8 February 2009 (F) - Oks, so, I like this guy (naming no names) and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not but I'm pretty sure (80% maybe?) that he does. We used to go out a few months ago but split up due to certain reasons, nothing serious though that would stop us ...

Will all boys make me feel like this?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn ...

Relationship ruined because of first date sex?

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8 February 2009 (F) - A few weeks ago I met Sean* in one of my classes. I see him every M and W for 4 hours, and we sit very close to each other b/c of assigned seats. We are also partners on a project together, and there are 5 weeks remaining in this quarter (we're ...

How can I feel happier about myself and how to approach a girl?

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8 February 2009 (M) - im a total outcast in school i only talk to people who i knew for a long time and boys thats it! i thought about suicide once but im way past that now. i feel that if i talk to a girl they would reject me, throw a insult, or a long moment of ...

Should I tell my friend's brother that I like him?

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8 February 2009 (F) - i have a best friend who has a brother and the brother is my cousin's friend and i really like him but i don't know how to tell him i like him because he is my best friend bother and my cousin's friend and also he heard a lot of bad things about me...

How to fix a dating mistake?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I met this guy three weeks ago when I wasn't even looking for a relationship, as I'd just gotten out of one. He caught me off guard with how easy our conversation flowed and how much we had in common. He texted and called me constantly for days ...

If he wants me as he says then why does he not take me out?

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8 February 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i have a problem. im 18 years old and in college. i have alot of fun and love my life. i have known robert for three years now. for the first two years we were very good friends and very close. we talked for hours a week and hung out ...

What can I buy my girlfriend for V-Day with this amount?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend, I have no ideas about what to get her for valentines day, I have about £50, I want her to really like it, please help. Thanks ...

We haven't seen each other for years, any tips for our reencounter?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I've recently got into contact via facebook with a guy I met and used to really like about 3/4 years ago. At the time he was going out with a friend of a friend so nothing happend but we'd go to gigs together and hang out quite a bit. The...

I don't understand his actions but don't think he is playing games

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi this is a loong story . almost its happening for a year. well I will cut shot.this guy would flirt nonverbal at beginning. almost a month, he tried. but I did not give in. so after some weeks when I did. he was happy one day, then serious ...

Is he still interested? Or are we just going to be mates?

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8 February 2009 (F) - hi just to give you an update regarding my questions rwith lad who i met who said was too busy. I bumped into him last night while out on the town celebrating my promotion. He walked into a bar on his own looking for his mates, my friends said tha...

First date blues

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8 February 2009 (M) - I'm a 33 year from a big US city who is recently single...just ended a 4 year relationship..I'm a very social guy, funny, educated, in shape, ect... I'm just getting back into the dating scene and I absolutely hate it! I was recently set up ...

Men's biggest turn on that women don't know about

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hi guys its blue kev from girls ask guys. Guys we all know about the kind of woman we dream about and the kind of woman we meet in real life. How many times have we dreamed of a girl saying three simple words. I Like you. And she kinda floats like ...

If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked ...

Why did he go from being so sweet that night to giving me this kind of response?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with this guy since we were six and we're now eighteen. Just before December he told me that he has liked me since we were 13 and what surpirsed me the most is that I realised that I liked him too, so now we're going out. ...

Should I give her an ultimatum?

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8 February 2009 (M) - my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. she wants to move out of her parents house and move in with her friend and her friends boyfriend another 30 mins away (making her living an hour away after the move). we both consider this to be a very ...

Am I not being flirtatious enough? How can I tell? Should I just have an open talk with him about our relationship?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I am a gay male, and I am really confused about if a guy wants to just remain friends with me or have a romantic relationship. I will call him Jon. We became friends about a year ago. I came on pretty strong when we first met. I was very ...

Does he really love me? Why does he act this why? Please explain this to me...

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8 February 2009 (F) - I am engaged to a great man, we'll call him "Joey" (Common names, yay!). We've been together for many, many years and are planning our wedding a couple years from now (College). Some nights, if I forget to call him when I come home an hour late (I ...

Should I try to pursue this? Will it work out?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I partied with my friend and his buddies a while back. I was drunk and actually kissed one of them two nights in a row but he wanted to do more. I didnt let him do anything and left. I found out that he was a major player so I guess I should stay ...

I froze up! Do you think he'll ask me out again?

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8 February 2009 (F) - So im 13 years old and i just went on my first date ever with a boy my age. I like him alot and have talked to him before but always with other people we knew around. This was the first instance where we were alone (sort of we went to a public ...

We get along great online, but in person she shies away from me. Why??

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8 February 2009 (M) - i recently met a girl, shes really nice to me and i kinda like her. she added me on myspace and talks to me all the time like normal on there, but whenever we meet up in person she always shies away from me, even if its just us. can any girls out...

How is a girl supposed to talk to guys?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I have no idea what to talk to guys about! I mean, there's only so much that you can talk about that's school-related and i know nothing about sports and don't care to. luckily, the guy i'm into right now isn't into that stuff (he likes art)... but ...

Is she having me on? Should I cut her out of my life?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I met this girl a few months back who has low self esteem but underneath she seemed a nice girl, she is also a virgin. She had a boyfriend at the time but he dumped her and then soon after she asked me out. We were together for a few weeks but ...

Do I tell him not to communicate? Or just go with the flow?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy I met through work for about 6 months. Not very often at first as I have two kids and only get a break every other weekend and he is very work dedicated. We talked online and on the phone for quite a bit for months before we...

Whats the matter with this guy?

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8 February 2009 (F) - There is this guy who works in a company who is my customer. Lately, I've been assigned to visit his office very often. I work in sales so since the beginning he showed being too out there like flirty and stuff, not only with me but every girl. ...

I met this guy and I can't stop thinking about him

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi, lets get straight to the point, see, I met this guy one day. I was leaving the nailery, and it was him and a few of his co-workers, they worked with the water department in my city. As soon as I walked out the store they all were yelling and ...

Intimacy issues

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8 February 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for 3 1/2 years. Throughout the relationship, commitment to the relationship has been challenging, i.e., making time to see me. My boyfriend has also had problems with intimacy, i.e., sex and taking the time to have sex. ...

Does anyone think I should feel neglected or be worried?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now, and I feel like we shouldn't have some of the same problems. When we met, I knew him as the party person, but we hooked up after talking for about 6 months. In the beginning things ...