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Dating: Help and advice

I love him but can't tell him to his face

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6 February 2009 (F) - i love him so much but in just can't tell him face to face. he always ask me how i feel about him but when i attempt to tell him my mind goes blank and my hands start sweating and i start stuttering. i want to tell him im in love with him and i need ...

Is it time to take the next step?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Hi, so my boyfriend and i were disscussing moving in together and one thing that came up was sex. Now my birthday is Valentine's day and thats pressure to have sex 2 times over so we've known each other 6 months, I've meet his family and he's meet ...

Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)

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6 February 2009 (M) - Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...

Desperate for some physical arousal!

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6 February 2009 (F) - I never get physically aroused any more, and that's making me desperate! I'm 20. I was always horny, lol. Ever since puberty, I'd check out guys, have fantasies, etc. I got together with my boyfriend and I was hornier than ever! I was always fanta...

Do I keep trying? Move on?

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6 February 2009 (M) - Theres this girl I've know for a long time, and we've been ok friends untill now. I really like her and want to go out with her. I've heard that she likes me, but she dosen't want to ruin our friendship, and thinks it would be too awkward. I'm ...

Bisexual and High forced me to become a prisoner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Back in 2006 I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex girlfriend of 2 years. It was stupid, and I wasn't focused. (I was high). Since that incident I vowed that I would stay true to him and our relationship. He "forgave" me and I have kept my promise. ...

Little situations w/girlfriend really upset me

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6 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going ...

How do I tell her how much I love her on her birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - My best friend (whom is a girl) and I have been best friends since we were in diapers. The problem? I've had a huge as hell crush on her since we were freshmeat in high school. At this point, I'm completely in love with her and every other girl I've ...

Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable?

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6 February 2009 (F) - My bf has become quite distance lately, he only holds my hand if I grab it first and mostly only says I love you if I say it first. Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable? ...

Her Facebook says "single", but she says we're together, what's going on?

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6 February 2009 (M) - well i am ( i think ) going out wit this girl we went to a disco not to long ago and she dumped me but the she wanted to go back so i said yea but now on her facebook profile it says that she changed her status to single (the time wen the thing was ...

Why would a guy who wants a girfriend party all the time?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I dont understand this at all. This guy I know said that he wants something long term and he is not into hooking up anymore. But he still parties every weekend, why? I thought that guys party in order to hook up with lots of girls. I mean I know ...

Her ex keeps giving her a hard time, what can I do?

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6 February 2009 (M) - I cant take this anymore. Me and my gf have been together 9 months im 16 shes 15. i dont care called it puppy love if u want but its really lol. anyways the prob is her ex. she loves me i know it she noes it and he noes it. and cos of this he keeps ...

How do I tell her subtly to lay off my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - ive got a boyfriend and hes so amazing. this other girl we know fancies him and shes just told everybody even though im going out with him. i know he will never go out with her even if he wasnt going out with me. but now that she knows i know shes ...

I'm clueless, what should be my next move?

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6 February 2009 (F) - hi there! my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago. we had been going out for 4.5 years and the reason for the break up was that he was really unhappy and that he doesnt want the responsibility of a relationship. due to lack of job, money and u...

Is it wierd to like a guy but not be physically attracted to him?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering is it weird to like a guy but not be physically attracted to him? Theres this guy n we have a lot in common, we have similar jobs like the same places and we get along rely well but the thing is i dont feel attracted t...

Help! My jealousy and insecurities are out of control!

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6 February 2009 (F) - Ok so i've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months when we first meet we rushed into it but it was amazing we planned getting married kids and everything we went on vacations it was just perfect until oct he broke up with me a week after our vacation...

He goes through periods of not contacting me, then he gets in touch when he wants sex. How do I cope with this?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Been putting this off because I don't want to be blasted for putting up with this nor for being in this kind of relationship. I just need coping tips. I'm seeing a guy, and it's mostly just about sex. I say "mostly" because I need his attention as ...

Cyber-cheated by sending private pictures of myself to someone else...do I admit it or not?

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6 February 2009 (M) - Last night, I did something really bad. I don't know why, I think maybe curiosity as it was a friend more than anything. But now I really, really regret it and feel so guilty. And it's a bit worse. I sent some "private" pictures to a friend (...

I find him attractive but I'm not sure if these feelings are real or if it's his physical appearance I like. Help!

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6 February 2009 (F) - I have recently met a guy who I have been hanging out with a lot. He is very toned and sexy which obviously attracts me to him. I like to hang around him and he really makes me laugh. I am not sure though if my feelings for him are true or if his ...

I declined to answer a sex-related question from my girlfriends and I think they suspect there's more to it than there is. What should I tell them?

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6 February 2009 (F) - This is a dumb non-living saving question. Me and a few of my new girlfriends, we've justed moved to another state, both my husband and I got new jobs. I was out with some of my girlfriends and since I'm the new one in the group they decided to play ...

The "honeymoon period" is over and he's not willing to meet me halfway. What should I do?

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6 February 2009 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend he made lots of effort, organised dates, did the chasing, etc. Now I feel like I am the only one making the effort. He used to come to my place, now he says he wont because he doesnt like the area I live in and why ...

We're only 14 and 15...can he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for almost 1 1/2 years that I just broke up with 2 weeks ago. My reason for breaking up with him was because there was another boy that I started to like and I didn't think it was fair to my boyfriend to stay with him when I had ...

Problems with the ex being back in her life...

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6 February 2009 (M) - The girl I love is confusing me (long 10 points)? So bascially we went out for 2 months and it wasn't working mainly because she wasn't over her ex. We decided we needed to break it off but she didn't want to stop talking to me. She says she like...

Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle?

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6 February 2009 (F) - There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel ...

Will a condom be safe enough, or will I need to take the morning after pill?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have decided to sleep together, I am not on the pill (I had a bad time with it years ago), will a condom be safe enough, or will I need to take the morning after pill....

How can I feel more comfortable?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I have just started seeing this really phyically fit guy the problems is I am the opposite and am so unfit and unhappy with the way I look. I have never had the confidence to strip and I have never seen a bloke naked, I know this is crazy but I am ...

I think I'm in love with A GIRL!!!!

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6 February 2009 (F) - I am 16, engaged and soooo confused. When I was 12-13 I went out with a girl and we ended and said we were just experimenting, but recently me and my boyfriend have started hanging out with her loads and my feelings for her have rocketed. I have ...

I cheated on my b/f , I feel I missed out on so much just being with him

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6 February 2009 (F) - i just need truthful advice and 2 cut a long story short. i'm 24 nearly 25 and cheated on my fiance wit his friend. it happened in07 and only happened twice. I regretted it, plz believe me. u c i started going with my fiance wen i wz 16, i never ...

Should I believe g/f never got horny with other guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - My girl friend had a 6 month relationship in HS where the did some kissing and heavy petting (she stroked him, he touched her down there, etc) - a few times. Then she met this jerk that had her give him a couple BJs (forced her head down), and had ...

Is my married guy going to stay with wife? pack up? Stay with me?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I am 21 year old gal who has never been in a stable relationship up until i met this guy.We met in a public bus..exchanged numbers,joked over the phone...met severally.We enjoyed each others company,and what i loved most about him was his concern ...

Does she expect me to tell her I love her?

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6 February 2009 (M) - With Valentine's coming up.. a lot of worry is building up.. Now, I've been with my girlfriend nearly 3 months, and my feelings for her are strong.. but I've not been around her enough to 'love' her.. what if she expects me to say those 3 words.. I ...

Is it better to hold back or push for what I want?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I had a debate with my mates yesterday, we are all having man problems at the moment. My friend said that if we push for an answer, closeness or comittmnet. We are likely to push the person away. Is that true? I always thought that if it was right ...

Is my Valentine's day idea good enough?

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6 February 2009 (M) - My idea for valentines.. both riding down to a quiet beach, have a little walk, I have her close her eyes and then present a white rose to her, kiss her cheek and tell her briefly how much she means to me then walk her over to where I have a few ...

I have a feeling he doesn't care about me as much as I care for him? Please advise.

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6 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a guy for a couple of months and we have gotten close very quickly. I stay over his place everyday and spent all our free time together. He is caring, generous and sweet to me. The sex is great. We have yet to argue. He has...

How to get my brother to agree to let me go out with my boyfriend?

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6 February 2009 (F) - My brother knows about my relationship with my guy and he doesn't have a problem... but he's told me not to hang out with him...My b'day's on this Sunday and we are planning to go out for lunch...I want my bro's "yes" for this..How do i tell him??i...

Anybody think this is a good outfit for a date at his place, or too casual?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow night,and I don't know what to wear! We've been on dates,but this is my first time going to his place. Still early in the relationship. I was thinking something casual because we are just laying around ...

How do I ask him to hurry up and move in without sounding like I'm pushing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - well my and my boy friend have been together for 5 years and i am ready to move in together we have been engaged for going on one year and i want to go ahead and move on with our life together. how do i ask him with sounding like i am pushing him to ...

Was I being two-faced?

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6 February 2009 (F) - was i being two-faced? i was very close friends with this girl. due to my fault, now we are not friends. when we were friends, i had a guy friend as well. my friend did not like this guy friend and felt he is very mean. in time even i starte...

I've never had a boyfriend, and it's hurting my self-esteem. What should I do?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I've never had a boyfriend and have been feeling down about myself lately. Everyone tells me that I need to learn to love myself first before anyone else can love me, I feel like I do love myself. All of my friends have significant others and I'm ...

I need my young, hot sex life back! Help!

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6 February 2009 (F) - After my second baby, I have no desire to have sex with my boyfriend. I am only 21 and have no idea why. Not only is the sex drive gone, but the sex is painful. I feel so bad, because he knows how I used to be and feels that I'm doing it elsewhere. ...

My boyfriend and I have broken up because he's going through a hard time. I want to wait for him but this is killing me.

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6 February 2009 (F) - Well here is my predicament. My boyfriend...well my ex-boyfriend rather, and I, have been together for three and a half years. We have always had a very loving relationship, one that is very communicative and open. We definitely went through more in ...

How can I get past the feelings I have for my best friend?

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6 February 2009 (F) - How can I get over my friend? I am falling in love with my best friend.. we have been friends for 4 years and we talk all the time. The thing is that I am starting to have feelings for him, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am just not his type.. ...

Is he playing games, or does he no longer care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Would a 60 year old guy who thinks he's a high roller play games with me just to get his you-know-what sucked if he has a steady girlfriend? (Yeah, I'm stupid - denounce me if you want to get your rocks off that way, but I really just need...

Why does she flirt so much and then tell me "she's not looking for anyone?"

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6 February 2009 (M) - okay well there's this girl i work with that i really like. i flirt with her, and she's been flirting heavily towards me too. i always catch her staring at me, we're always touching each other, laughing at each other, tells me she "loves me"; all of ...

Why didn't he kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Something weird happened to me today. There's this guy I've been working with for a month. I'm 31 and he's 25, although this doesn't seem to matter to him. He's been flirty, and is what you can call a pretty boy, too pretty b/c he's HOT. He says he ...

What's going on with my boyfriend?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Hmm, well basically, my boyfriend of just over a year has been acting funny lately. He's always on the computer, and closes MSN conversations when I go over to talk to him. Curious as to his odd behaviour, one day I decided to take a look at one of ...

Should I be playing the game too?

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6 February 2009 (F) - So my ex and I broke up two months ago after a two year relationship and recently, I've started hanging out with a guy I dated for four months back in sophomore year of high school. I really like this guy, mainly because we seem to be more ...

How do I cope?

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6 February 2009 (M) - I am a 59 year old man who has been going out with 47 year old woman for 8 years. We have broken up 4 times and she has come back to me every time. We love each other I thought. She has a 21 year old son who quit college and had 2 job delivering ...

I can't trust him any more. Should I stay with him or move on?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for three months now. And he broke up with me once because he had "confusion" in his life according to him. We got back together now. But I still can't trust him. When he told me that he wants to keep th...

Why can't men stay sweet and charming like they always are in the beginning of a relationship?

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6 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. I'm 19 and he is 27. I know there is quite and age difference but when we met i just fell in love with who he was. Sometimes he acts like he's 12 though. He's very stubborn and can't ever admit to ...

Don't know how to prepare for my first time???!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I am going to turn 15 in March ok and I have been dating this guy for quite a long time and I haven't done anything with him yet because I'm afraid that is all he wants from me is sex but he has shown me that he really cares for me and loves me and ...

Am I ever going to find someone to love me?

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6 February 2009 (F) - I've had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them ...

Should I call him to find out what's going on or wait and see if he tries calling me?

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6 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I talked yesterday for a while and he asked me to come over today. I said yes. He said him and his mom would be here to pick me up around 3 or so. I waited for 4 hours and he never text me saying anything came up, no phone calls, no ...