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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I get over this nervousness & commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (?) - Ok I'm nineteen and I just when on a date with this guy. He is sooooo hot, and I can't help but be nervous around him. I've never been super confident in my looks, and I've never been in a serious relationship. Every time a relationship gets close ...

I like him, but I hate kissing him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Well,the thing is iv been with my boyfried for 3 months or so... and i still actually really love him. But one thing that really puts me off his is... i dont like to kiss him, i mean i do like kissing just i dont like kissing him because... well, ...

I want to go out with him, but I don't want to get into something too serious....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - ive liked this guy for ages but didnt know if he liked me, but then the other day we hooked up - a bit more than just kissing but i stopped him before it got too far which im really proud of since i like him so much. however my last relationship was ...

Does this mean that he's not interested anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - i went on a date with a guy. The same night when we got home i texted him quick to mention something about what we'd been speaking about, because i remembered the name of something. And he sent a text back saying he had a great time, and hes gl...

I want to be with him, but I don't want to sit around and wait 'til he's available!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hi im in need of advice,no matter what it is, i would really appreciate anything you can give me as im pretty confused right now! It sounds pretty strange i know but a guy i met about 6 weeks ago is like my best friend, but we have sex, and he...

Have I turned a gay guy straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hello, so i've been on chemistry.com for 3 months and i keep getting matches that have everything i want in a guy but the best match was a gay guy. i dont have anything wrong with that now that i've gotten to know him (over facebook) and he wants to ...

Allthough he sounded excited, he didn't have an erection - is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ive recently started a new relationship 2 months, we're very close and he already says he's falling for me. Anyway cutting to the chase, the other night we were getting close, intimate and eventually to a point of almost ripping into each other. ...

I'm sick of him pouting because I'm not ready to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost a month now. :) He keeps pushing the sex issue. I feel I'm not completely ready just yet. And when I say 'no' he pouts! I'm getting a little sick of it.. For example: This morning I had an appt. to ...

One year later, we can't find things to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend keep having awkward silences .. and once we get to that point, it seems we cant ever bring the conversation back .. we will spend ages just saying "sooo..." and "ermmm..." and "hmmm..." and things liek that .. why?! we've been ...

How do I resit the temptation to cheat? The urge is strong

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I've been looking around on the web for advice to this question, but can't find a satisfactory answer. I have been dating the same girl for three years now, she's gorgeous and I love her, but she has some issues and we don't have sex very often. ...

1st date questions that will spark conversation! Laughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - This is the situation, me and this guy have been dealing with are running low on conversation. Is there anything to talk about that can couse conversation, or make him laugh. because for some reason when we get bored we end up alking about the ...

What do guys like as presents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - its my bf bday soon and i wnt to get ideas on what guys like what should i get him basically? i do have ideas but i wnt to get a guys point of view too thnku:)...

I'm positive my friend took something of mine and I don't know how to confront her about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have a really strange situation with a gf of mine. I had invited her on Valentines day to my house because she got in a huge fight with her bf so she decided to sleep over at my house. As she spent the night over, I woke up the next ...

I'm lost! I don't know what to do or even ask her about the pictures

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - A little over a month ago my girlfriend and I went out fo rdrinks for her birthday, when out and I wasnt at the table we were sitting at she grabbed a strangers grion. When we got home I kicked her out. Nearly a month later she came back into my ...

My boyfriend wants to be so rough and always wants anal sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My BF of 6 months is nice and gentle except in bed. I mean he starts nice and gentle but it always gets very dominant. He was abused as a child and HAS to be the dominant person in bed. I want to please him, but he now wants anal sex EVERY time ...

Everytime I see him I feel emotional about not being able to have him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - this might sound really sad. but i dont know if this is 'love' or not. i am 15 and have never went near a boy - not that i dont want to i just havnt i am about the only person i know that hasnt kissed or had a boyfriend. anyways i go to this sport ...

I always feel he's hiding something as he doesn't wan to get close to me sexually...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and I've been dating a guy for the past three years we had our ups and downs we were very close then we drifted apart and now were back together we talk and were pretty close but I always feel he's hiding something or he doesn't wanna get ...

I'm looking for some simple things that could drive him crazy during sex and also sure fire ways that we can reach that climax!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 February 2009 (?) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've been crazily in love for 3 months of that and I completely adore him. We can't spend enough time with each other, and when we are together we literally can't keep our hands off each ...

Temporary or final break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I had a thing for this girl that started about two years ago in my freshman year of high school. She had a long-term boyfriend for over a year so I couldn't really do anything about it. I knew she was the one for me because I would go in and out of ...

Friends and nothing more--how do I say that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am in love with the man of my dreams. We have been together for quite a bit of time, however towards the end of last year, around oct-nov time, I started develpoing feelings for another guy. This other guy, is just a friend but I started getting ...

Do I call or text him?

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20 February 2009 (F) - I have had strong feelings for a certain guy for about 4 months now. I was lead to believe that he felt the same way, as he asked our mutual friends to set up a double date. Apparently, he has remarked "how good I looked" a few times, which my ...

We met online, he says he wants to have sex and then marry me in 3 years, do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - me and this guy met on orkut (Social networking and discussion site )and we have been knowin each other by communicating by phone since last year..havent seen each other bfore.. he says he likes me and i also like him..he says he love me 60% but as f...

I want to be with her but she is scared of getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I just started being in this relationship and im so into her and would love to be with her. The only problem is shes scared of being hurt and i can promise you this i wouldnt hurt her shes so amazing. And i know she likes me and would like to get ...

How old were you when you first French-kissed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ummm. I've never pulled ( kissed with tounges ) a guy, I'm 13... How old were YOU when you first did that... Am I too young? ...

Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...

How can I know if I am in love with my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hi, How do I know if I'm in love with my friend? I think I am, but he doesn't feel the same way. It seems as though I'm trying to deny the fact that I love him to avoid future rejection and heartbreak. It's difficult to admit to loving someone ...

Should I go to these parties, even though my boyfriend doesn't approve?

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20 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has the biggest problem with me going to parties and he will cuss at me and get really reall mad. he says that he doesnt want me around all those boys because he thinks they'll try something with me.i think he doesn't trust me and thi...

What do girls do when they like a guy? How do they act?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - How do you know the difference between when a girl is being friendly and she actualy likes you. So far no girls have been able to answer this question. Ladies what do you do when you actualy like a guy not just being nice....

Looking for miss right

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - Hi my name is ray I'm 22 and in a relationship with a 16 year old and its not working out i want to find me someone close to my age from 18-40 that don't lie and don't cheat who is honest i don't lie i don't cheat I'm honest mature sweet caring ...

Strict mom doesn't want me to have a boyfriend.

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20 February 2009 (F) - Okay so im 15 yrs old. and my boyfriends 17. and my mom dosent seem to want me to have a bf. but i mean come on im 15 i think im pretty old enough to have a boyfriend. i've been leaving hints that i have a bf. and i been getting home late. and s...

How do I tell my girlfriend she needs an attitude adjustment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - Ok, I Love my Girl friend to death, she treats me like royalty and hardly ever tells me no however her attitude towards other people is harsh and cold. How do i Tell her that she needs an attitude adjustment or better yet a personality revamp ...

I'm upset because my boyfriend is not a virgin.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl, who has a 18 year old boyfriend. What bothers me is to know that he has not been a virgin since he was 16. When I first met him I really didn't care.. I guess since he didn't mean much to me but now, I love him. He would ...