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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do you dump someone you love but they can't trust you.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (M) - How do you dump someone you love but they can't trust you. I love this girl and we're good together, it's just we argue all time and it's just too stressful right now... I know it will hurt but I don't think I need the extra stress, we've been going ...

Drunken night girlfriend fight!

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14 February 2009 (M) - I just wanted to throw a story out and see if my mind is in the right place or not. Basically, I got drunk at a party with some friends. My girlfriend was with me, along with a few of our friends. She had a little too much to drink and was cu...

I love him but I cannot stay with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I been with my fiance for 2 years and I recently found out he's been cheating on me almost the whole time we've been together. He lied and told me he was done with the relationship with the other woman so I got back with him until found out it ...

I don't want to compromise my own morals but I do want to keep my girlfriend happy and satisfied.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

14 February 2009 (M) - Hi. First off, my girlfriend (23) and I (24) finally got together about a week ago. Secondly, a little over six months ago, she was finally strong enough to get out of a six-year relationship with a complete moron/asshole who physically and ...

There is no physical attraction for me on my part.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I'm with a really kind lovely guy but there's just no physical attraction on my part. We've had sex about 3/4 times and it's just completely boring for me! I do usually enjoy sex but it's more like just having sex for the sake of it or to keep him ...

Is he covering it with his anger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago, but he keeps wanting us to be friends. Even though we fight all the time. He's now in a rebound relationship with a woman trying to get out of a bad marriage. He's angry at me because I have a hard time ...

Who here is really in love after two years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I decided to ask this question after receiving a reply on here from another user talking about after two years of marriage she is no longer happy with her guy - I've never really lasted much longer than 2 years with any one guy either. Anyo...

How do you ladies feel when your man forgets V-Day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it ...

Ideas on how to get my boyfriend to give me gifts on holidays and treat me like he values me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to give me gifts on holidays and treat me like he values me? My boyfriend is affectionate, a good friend, and the sex is off the charts outstanding. Weve been together for 8 months now. For my birthday and xmas which are a ...

Was I right to give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had been drinking excessively and always got violent with me. He's pushed me, slapped me and last time after getting in a fight in a bar came home at three in the morning blaming me for that and kept telling me he would kill me. He ...

I'm doing ok on my own and I don't know if I should be in a relationship or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - It is Valentines day and I guess it has got me thinking. Three years ago my twelve year relationship ended and my boyfriend just withdrew from my life. I have done well in every area of my life but when it comes to romance, I am terrified and with ...

The crush I've liked forever likes me now but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - well i been going out with this boy chris for about 3 months now and we've been having a rollercoaster relationship. we broke up 3 times, and we almost broke up recently but no lie he is completely and 100% in love with me. his only problem is that ...

The man I'm seeing is 33 and still lives with his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a 4 year relationship with a man and we have a 4 year old son together. I am 24 and he is 33 but the problem is he still lives at home with his parents. He lives and works an hour away from me and and we only get to see him 2 days...

I found a text on his phone telling his ex he loved her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we're really happy together, there's just one thing that upsets me. He's always texting his ex, and I know I shouldn't mind as everyone tells me she's his ex for a reason but it just really ...

My head is swirling with doubts---HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Ok,i need some help please.I realy love this one guy and he loves me 2.We'v been friends for 2yrs almost 3, and were about to start dating.But im starting to think that this wont be what I thought itd be....for either of us.He's starting to be ...

He's out of my league, and we will never be. But I love him so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I love this guy I met, when I say love, I will drop out of college and start a family, or even have his baby if he wants me to. I just love him, I may even be infactuated with him. I think about him and cry sometimes, he is 28 and has his life ...

Dumped my married man and now, he hates the sight of me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I recently broke it off with a married man whom i was seeing for 7 years and we have a 5 yo child. Since now, he can't stand me, he lies to his wife and family saying I'm calling his phone and playing with it up, telling me need to get a man. He ...

He called me a psycho gf and dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I made a mistake the other night, I was a psycho girlfriend. My boyfriend and I were going to hang out as normal around 730 to watch a game on tv. He called about 620 to say he was going to his old bosses and might not be back right on time but he'd ...

Am I deluded here???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 February 2009 (M) - Hi people, I'm a 26 year old guy, and thought I'd write here to get some advice on my relationship with my girlfriend (23) of 6 years. During this time together, we have had our ups and downs, and as most couples do, broken up to make up again. U...

I'm seriously down because I just can't get over my ex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Hi, Well last August I met this really amazing guy...well I thought he was. And it was a few weeks later he told me he liked me. Anyway, in September we decided to meet up and we kissed which was my first ever kiss. He asked me out and I said y...

How can I let him know I'm nowhere ready to sleep with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. I once told him that I'm not abstinent because of my religion but I explained to him that I'm not just gonna give it up to any guy but I think he's been hinting me that he thinks he's gonna get ...

How do I decide what to do when things are so up in the air?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My partner and I met at Uni four years ago and had a laidback relationship for six months. During this time I cheated on him numerous times. We had not made it a deep and serious relationship (although monogamy *was* expected) cos we were both ...

My guy writes down other guys penis sizes!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Is my guy bi or gay if he calls all male gay talk lines? I found him doing this soon after we met in 2006.. he'd ask guys their penis sizes by the way he'd write them on paper and I'd find them. also he would have their phone numbers but he said ...

How can I make him cum like he's never done before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I want to make my man cum like hes never did before! I hear you can do that by putting your finger in his anus... but what do I do, just put it in and that's it? I need help cause I am very much freaky and I wanna suck him off and I want him to cum ...

Did I still need the morning after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Hi there, I tried looking it up, my question and it does have to do with sex, I'm seeing this guy and well we had sex a couple of times made love we used a condom and we were in to the love making good and well he came and after he caressed me, he ...