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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Met him a few days while in Turkey and now I'm going to live with him there...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I went on holiday to Turkey last year and met a turkish man, I only new him for a few days but they were the best few days ever. When I come back home to England we've stayed in contact and for the past 5 month I have been back, we have spoke ...

The guy I'm talking to now and the ex are friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hi guys, well this time last year I was seeing a guy for a couple of months, it wasn't serious, he finished it and nothing ever became of it. We remained civil and talk back and forth. Anyway a guy messaged me on my profile and he's really nice...

Am I wanting too much? Too soon? Paranoid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I recently met the most wonderful guy through a mutual friend, who is intelligent, caring and makes me feel wonderful. He doesnt want to rush anything, and is not ready for a serious relationship, as he had a bad experience last time. This is fine ...

V-day! A card? no card?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hi. ok I need some help from all d males (and females if they wish) I know my boyfriend realy well but I still cant think of anything to get him for valintines day!!! what do lads like?! I am working that day(flower shop, very very busy day!) ...

Where can we go outdoors?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I know it says 13-15 but I am 17 I thought you had to be a certain age to join this. Me n my boyfriend do a few sexual things but not sex as yet. We have only fingered and wanked. How do I really drive him crazy outside as we cnt be indoors because ...

My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this ...

He wants to sort out some issues and in the meantime just be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have recently met a lovely, caring man through a mutual friend. We have been seeing each other a lot, and have been out on what I see as dates, and have spent lots of time kissing and cuddling and watching movies. We have got touchy feely, and ...

Honesty...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - I am a divorced 34 year old male. My last marriage was one full of trust issues and what I like to call lack of love. I am now engaged to a gorgeous and wonderful women. The one good thing about my last marriage is that I learned the number 1 and ...

Lack of intimacy in our year long relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - I'm 23 in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (21) and I have been together for a lil' over a year. We both love each other dearly and we communicate well with each other...however, there's a lack of intimacy in our relationship. I'll give ...

I don't want to make a fool of myself, should I send him a valentine card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I met a really nice lad followed me round bars on night out and left his mates to come to next bar to see me. He was a proper gentleman. Went out a couple times and everything was going well, he invited me back to his to watch tv and insisted ...

Non-experienced girlfriend with master of experience boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old virgin with ZERO experience in the sex department and my boyfriend seems to be a FREAK in that department. He's 18 but you see I wanna be able to fufil his sexual desires but I'm a virgin and I dunno if I wanna lose it yet. Yet I ...

Connection at work - what should I do? Do you think she has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I was moved for training at my center where I work. I was placed for training 2 weeks - my trainer and I had a connection, always touching my hand and making a comment about my ph voice. I left to go down to a diffrant area- she would find excuses ...

Help I'm in love with my cousin!!!!!!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - A few months ago I went out with my cousin but after 2 months we broke up. Later a friend and i talked about him and expressed how i still loved him. She went on to tell him and he was so angry we had an agument and we really hated each other...

Do I tell her I love her or would this scare her off again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - There is a very special girl in my life, yes we call each other a friend. We are practically a couple but the truth is we don't go out and she has said she's not looking for a boyfriend right now. We talk all the time, we have trust and are honest ...

What should I do for Valentine's Day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - Valentine's day is nearing and i'm worried.. very worried. This'll be the first valentine's I've not been alone. Valentine's a day before mine and my girlfriend's 3 month 'anniversery'... which makes me feel yet more under pressure. I was thinking ...

I have got accepted for a job nearer him but he's going to join the army....will I always be wondering 'what if'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Theres a man Ive liked for over 4 years now (I got talking to him more after I'd split up with my ex)and we became really flirty and really good friends wieh eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother (3 times, he ...

My emotional affair ended with the married man! I miss him..any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I had an emotional affair with a married man with 2 kids for the last year. i trapped in his emotional talks only. e said so many lies to me that "i swear on god that i love you so much" i used to discuss my all the problems with him so openly. he ...

Is my Army guy interested in me or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is u...

How to invite female to flat for first time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - how can i invite a female friend to my flat for first time. I need a good excuse, maybe invite her to watch movie and order food? Please give lots of suggestions! Thank you...

How do I tell him after we had sex that I want a monogamous relationship while at this level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - How do I tell a guy after I have dated him six times, had sex with on the sixth date, and want to have sex with again, that I want to be monogamous while we are in this level of the relationship? It's an ex post facto thing and, although ...

I feel she takes me for granted, what can be done here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 3 1/2 months but it seems like she would rather hang out with her friends more than hang with me. Like we won't see each other for 5 days and when we suppose to hang out it will only be for a couple hours before she has ...

Is there any way I could get my party boy to want to settle down with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I went to my friends house and met his roomate who was really cute. The first time we just kissed and he took me to his room but I said that I should go and left. Then when I went over there again, we kissed again and this time he was trying to do ...

Should I voice out to my mum???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I am turning 20 this year. i have not been in a relationship before. My family is quite conservative about this matter, especially my mum. I started to hang out with a guy recently. And she started to giving some advice... hint me not to hang out ...

All men! Is confidence... Hot or not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have never been a confident girl. Althought people tell me I should I like every other girl, see nothing more then my FLAWS.. I have heard from a number of people men see confidence attractive? I in many ways believes this. But I have never heard ...

Is it worth the risk to fall in love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have a real dilemma on my hands. I reconnected with someone I knew in high school. Didn't date him then, but I ran into him recently at an event. We talked and I was very attracted to him. So, I emailed him and we've been talking over the ...

Does she want to be friends, more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - ok so... ive asked all my friends and id like to hear someone elses opinion on this.. ok so i like this girl. on the first day of school she asked me for my cell number, and we talk alot every night and we hang out a lot. ive asked her out but she ...

I went from wanting him for sex to wanting him for a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. Weeks went by and he visited ...

What do I do about my out of control crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - Hey. I think I'm a bit psychologically unstable. I recently started to have a big crush on this one girl, but for some reason this is different. When I'm not around her, I think about her all the time. I can't concentrate on homework, and whenever ...

His family & co are living with us and its driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half now and have been living together for eight months. Recently his sister who is a lesbian lost her job and her and her girlfriend needed somewhere to stay. I'd never met the girlfriend ...

What are these guys thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Over the last couple of years, I have had several guys do this to me and it is driving me crazy. These guys take my things without asking. The first time, a nice guy took my calculator all the time without asking. At first I asked for it back, but ...

The importance of pictures in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - Hi, My gf and I have been dating for a while and it has really been wonderful. There is one thing that bothers me though, we rarely take pictures together and when we go out we don't take as much pics as I would like us to... Is that a problem o...