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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I've been brought up in a Christan background. I have a lovely family, they do not drink or swear, just a normal loving family. I've been with my fiance for 3 years. I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road. Is this what god has ...

I'm beginning to feel kind of bored with my boyfriend, we do the same old stuff each and every day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Before I got with my boyfriend of 4 months, I used to text this lad and we were like best mates. He admitted he fancied and has done for a long time. I was quite shocked and I felt like I had a kind of connection for him too, I left it for a while ...

How do I let go of resentments toward boyfriend and feel closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - How do I let go of resentments toward boyfriend and feel closer? I have been dating a great guy for several months who treats me very well. Everything had been going well until I started focusing more on our incompatibilities instead of the good thi...

In-love-with-a-dork

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I am in such annoying situation with a guy right now. he's really cute and funny and always really nice to me, i only met him last month but one of his friends is my best friend. i told my best friend that i liked him, which she told him after h...

I need some valentine's day help...

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11 February 2009 (F) - I know there's loads of questions on girls getting their better half something for Valentines day but none of them answer my question. I've never done Valentines day before. My boyfriend is staying over from Friday to Tuesday, and for Saturday I w...

I don't know where my life is going right now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend are taking a break from dating because I'm in a tough spot in my life. no job, no money, I don't know what else to do. We've been dating for a little 3 years.I do miss and love her. I am 28 years old. It's just that I ...

Body dysmorphia???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm 21 years old, and since I was 17 I have been experiencing something that I thought was pretty normal. I know every woman has body worries, but I feel like mine are getting out of control. I'm a size 10 and weigh just under 9 stone-and I'm ...

The guilt is eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - I just cheated on my girl friend of one year. I knew it was wrong and once things started to progress from just kissing I had to stop because I just knew that what I was doing was a terrible thing. I told the girl I had to stop and I just went ...

He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years and have been sexually active with him for over a year. He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. I feel terrible. What should we do?...

I can never tell whether blokes like me or want to be just friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - hi how can u tell if someone wants to be with you or just mates? I can never tell whether blokes like me. can i have some advice please...

Do men like receiving Valentine's gifts?

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11 February 2009 (F) - Do men like receiving valentine cards/gifts ??!...

How can I make V-Day not an "acid test", but meaningful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I am so in a fog about Valentine's Day! Last weekend, I just felt so very close to my guy, though our relationship is not very well-defined. I looked at cards yesterday, but didn't buy any... yet. And chocolate, too, have a better idea about that, ...

She seems too interested for someone who doesn't care! is she jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - I was close to a girl a while ago, one night something happened and all that changed and she started dating another guy, we werent dating but things between us had been complicated. I have recently started talking to her again an I have gotten close ...

Shouldn't I love him no matter what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I love my bf, he's a great guy. But sometimes I wish he were better looking. I make him wear a hat all the time cos his hair is awful and he's going bald. But I sometimes feel like that is really messed up. Shouldn't I love him no matter what? But ...

He gives off signals of being interested. Is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - There's this senior student in our school. When he taught us biology(because it's a practice in our school that senior students should teach freshmen upto juniors, they are like substitute teachers) and i'm a sophomore. that time, there was 3 of ...

Monogamy NOT marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - For years I played the field. I had a couple of relationships along the way and was faithful in them. But the women wanted marriage and I did not so we parted ways. Now I am at the point i am tired of dating different women. And I became celibate ...

Do guys prefer blondes over brunettes?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - do most guys perfer a pretty blonde to a brunette. any guy i have known always went for the blondes heavy or thin. do guys not like brunette are we not good enough or pretty enough like the blondes...

What to get a guy when for V-day when you just started seeing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - What do you get a man for valentines day - whom you have only just started seeing? We have liked each other for a long while, however it has only become more within the past two weeks. Would really appreciate your suggestions!! ...

How can I not fall for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Hi! I guess I get easily emotionally attached to people because I kissed a player type guy at a party and now he is all I think about. While we were kissing, he kept touching my boobs and put my hand down his pants. I knew that I really shouldnt ...

What signals to guys give when they like a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Hi, How do you know if a guy likes a girl? Hey guys what signals do you give to girls? Thank you...

Confused and disgusted what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Im so confused with this guy! Im so sick of men giving the run around.We had a great night together last week.We had sex for the first time after going on dates for a couple months,it was very nice and romantic.I mean super sweet,not like a slam bam ...

What should I do if I want to see him again, without making it awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - This weekend I ran into a guy at the bars whom I have always had a crush on, but he has had a girlfriend the entire time I've known him. He has been with his girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. Well, I ended up going home him with him after the bars and ...

Am I holding on to a hopeless crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - 3 years ago I truely fell in love for a senior that was my drill instructor and best friend. He went to boot camp and became a Marine and basically sucludes himself, but this interesting friendly relationship was abusive with his demeaning, hurtful ...

I want to ask her out but not sure I'm brave enough

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - So there's three people in our group: me, my photographer friend, and the girl I like. We're pretty good friends with each other. I suspect she have an idea that I like her (otherwise why do I spend so much time talking to her??). Only problem ...

WHY did my b/f cheat on me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - hey recently my boyfriend cheated on me and im having a really hard time dealing with it... what keeps playing on my mind is WHY?? i just want to know so i can try to logically understand the concept however when i asked him he said it was just a ...

Is looking at live nude webcam girls porn or cheating?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I have asked this question before but feel the need to ask one more time. Has any girl out there had her boyfriend look at live nude girls on a video cam? Or are there any guys who watch it? Is it normal and I'm being old-fashioned or is it ...

They say I am a one burner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - Hi have weird question. I have a beautiful girlfriend whom love me and always be there for me.Sometimes i feel like break up because my friend say we are talking too long 4 years. They say i am one burner. What your view on this...

Would you be the g/f of a guy who "isnt your type?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Would you be the girlfriend of a guy who is not necessarily your type looks wise.. if he treats you nice (except for one screw up) waits to do things when you are ready isn't cheap is sweet BUT worries about whether you will cheat a lot..hi...

Does he not want his sister to know about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I call my boyfriend out of the blue. He likes me calling him every now and then.. This time he was relaxing in his room and his sis was there. We talked about a minute or two. And I noticed he wasn't talking that much so I let him go and w...

Is this premature ejaculation? Don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

11 February 2009 (M) - Hey, i am 17 years old and i have been dating a girl for almost 3 months now. she comes to my house and we watch movies and cuddle on the couch, eventually we make out for a long time and touch eachother form 40 minutes to an hour. when she puts her ...

Should I stay with who I'm with? Or make a switch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Well, where to begin.... i met D almost 3 yrs ago online and we fell in love it was a great relationship everything i could ever dream of in a man, he was. It was a long distance relationship. Then cos of him having to study so much in med school ...